GF is moving out today, I feel lost and hopeless where do I go from here?

GillicuttyMcAnus · 2016-12-03T23:13:50+00:00

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2016-12-03T21:58:47+00:00

Women are never happy.. That's why I never really tried to make them happy..

Inverse_Mirror · 2016-12-03T19:34:49+00:00

That feeling of failure regarding her happiness isn't anything to put yourself down about. It shouldn't have been your concern, you're free from that self-imposed burden. Go out and do what makes YOU happy now. YOU....as in yourself, let that sink in....not some chick. Stop beating yourself up about this as well. You can do everything right and things still won't work out. That's life and that's how these chicks are. All those feels you have now regarding "failure" is all simply because you're a decent guy. Now channel that energy into something productive and just take the past 2.5 years as a lesson/experience earned under your belt.

wildfireboat · 2016-12-04T00:30:41+00:00

A couple hard truths for you: It is not your job to entertain your significant other. Dating means making yourself happy and allowing someone to join in on YOUR fun. It will take you several months for the emotional pain to die down. Men handle break ups best when they are busy working on something; a car, weight room, gaming, etc. Women handle breakups by immediately fucking someone. You know it. We know it. Likely, that one fuckboi that's been texting her on occasion for the last couple months. She will likely try to contact you sometime after the breakup. Don't insult yourself by responding. If you want a healthy heart, I prescribe a clean cut from the past.

Forget her, forever. Don't text. Don't call. It is over. Move on with your life.

As for the new peashooter, enjoy it... at the range.

Oh, and welcome to MGTOW.

User-31f64a4e · 2016-12-04T06:28:23+00:00

where do I go from here?

Nowhere. She's the one moving out.

The pain will pass. Typically, for a woman, it takes 24 hours. For a man, about half the time that the relationship lasted. We're not programmed to branch swing the way women are.

Could never make her happy.

Not your responsibility.

2016-12-03T19:40:35+00:00

You need to look at yourself and understand why you feel like you are worthless without validation from her. Solve this and everything else will fall into place.

GillicuttyMcAnus · 2016-12-03T19:48:22+00:00

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GillicuttyMcAnus · 2016-12-03T20:01:55+00:00

You will learn you can't fix something that is unfixable. That shit is on her and the next guy will try just like you and fail and I bet she already has him lined up.
AWALT brother AWALT.

Deplorable_Pepe · 2016-12-04T00:22:42+00:00

The beauty of being single is you will realize how much more time you have to spend on yourself and not someone else. At first it is a bizarre feeling, but you will see how restricted you were by being in a relationship. There are so many more things you can do and try that you wanted to while in a relationship but couldn't. Additionally, you do not have to worry about being bitchsplained to. You do not realize how much nagging and worrying about somebody else's emotional state can destroy your mind.

soothslayer2k · 2016-12-04T01:26:17+00:00

As TRP would say, "She was never yours, it was just your turn."

Treat women like they treat you; a disposable utility and easily replaceable.

Women cannot love men the same way men love women, that's female nature.

hardtojoinreddit · 2016-12-04T05:03:20+00:00

Celebrate. I did

sfactor360 · 2016-12-04T10:41:28+00:00

This has already been mentioned but it wasn't your job to make her life happy. She was probably just unhappy with her life overall, and if so, then there was nothing you could've done to fix it.

801735 · 2016-12-03T19:33:56+00:00

If it's GF then meh, if it's ex, then celebrate! ]=)

manifesto18 · 2016-12-03T20:18:55+00:00

From the edit sounds like you're on the right track! Get out of the house, bury yourself in your hobbies and enjoy life bro!

lonewolf-chicago · 2016-12-04T00:01:10+00:00

Thank God She Is Leaving!!!!!! Dude, you're a thousand times better off. Find someone (or no one) that appreciates you. You wasted money and time on that selfish bitch. Wanna bet, she'll contact you again in a little while. No more $$ on women for you!! Give yourself 3 months with no girl whatsoever and then do whatever. Women are money whores, money suckers, life suckers and they don't appreciate it. They are a virus. Relax and enjoy the peace and quiet.

wawakaka · 2016-12-04T00:37:30+00:00

cici's pizza

pig out

embaira · 2016-12-04T05:10:14+00:00

it is hard at first. You will probably feel like you are shackled to bed or something, can't do things you are interested in and that you feel like a zombie. This feeling will go away in time and it is good that you found a place to share this story. Try to stay positive and get back to your daily routine.

Budee01 · 2016-12-04T05:55:54+00:00

man don't fret. lotsa guys, me included, have ex-wives who could never be satisfied either. These women obviously don't like their husbands as you will see so many such women treat near total strangers better. So you avoided being one of those guys who was chained to bad marriage and being a dancing monkey for the wife. Why? To keep her happy because you had kids and didn't want a divorce. So you might feel bad about the last 2.5 years. But consider how poorly a marriage to this woman would likely have been. And if you didn't want marriage to her, then you are saying you wanted a permanent live in gf? That's not really realistic given a woman's biological clock.

Playstation_5 · 2016-12-04T15:45:50+00:00

Dude wtf are you moaning about, she's 50lb overweight and spends all her money on absolute crap. Plus when was the last time she even tidied your place?

GF is moving out today, I feel lost and hopeless where do I go from here?

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Title	GF is moving out today, I feel lost and hopeless where do I go from here?
Author	GillicuttyMcAnus
Upvotes	3
Comments	25
Date	December 3, 2016 4:09 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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