Help me Brothers

Mike637 · 2016-09-21T18:25:09+00:00

Make a list of all the shitty things women have done to you. Keep it in your pocket and if you start thinking about befriending a female, pull out the list and read it.

I am not completely in line with the AWALT line of thinking. I have two female friends that are "unicorns". You can have female friends, just do not sleep with them. Be cautious, woman you can actually be friends with are very rare.

JStheHammer · 2016-09-21T17:51:58+00:00

Rub one out as needed. You'll feel better.

scorched_throwaway · 2016-09-21T18:23:28+00:00

first you need to realize is these feelings you have are nothing more than a chemical reaction in your brain, that's it!

you've been programmed since birth to crave female validation/attention and any female can ruin your life for virtually any reason. if you truly need companionship, i recommend a pet.

..and the "rot" feeling, that's you waking up. it's a shit feeling and it will pass. at one point you will see female nature exactly as it is and you won't want to go back.

your becoming enlightened! best not to resist.

lonewolf-chicago · 2016-09-21T18:23:19+00:00

You might be more fulfilled as a red pill (no judgements). You're still young so hormones are a huge factor.

The companionship portion of your desire is a tough one for me to comment on because I was the same way - I HAD to have someone love me and be in love until I had enough of the bullshit (I'm 44 now). Part of it was because my mom died when I was 11, dad died 6 months later.

So for me, it took everything I had before I realized women aren't worth it. That was about 28-30 years of having girlfriends, fiances, wife, then ex-wife.

Find a chick that offers you everything you desire, but no commitment.
Keep a girlfriend or two that don't want your money... good luck on that one.
A really good chick is good for about a year, two at the best (in my experience). Perhaps when you get older the hormones will subside.
Another option is to see a doctor about finding something to lessen your libido.
You can beat off like a spider monkey, but that's not good in the long term.

Sorry I can't be more of a help.

gsharm · 2016-09-22T00:52:04+00:00

Slow down, read, listen, make things.

coqui25 · 2016-09-22T03:17:00+00:00

Hey bro. I can't tell you what to do. I had to figure out my own way. If I could help you, I would need to know more info.

What I did was get a pet to take care of. Treat them well and talk to them. I also keep myself very busy. I study, work, and help the community. I do still hangout with friends, but as to chicks, I try to hangout with them very rarely.

There are always people who need help in the community. Maybe this will help you find your way.

Also, don't forget a lot of people don't have jobs. Others have no food, water, or even a family. Be grateful for what little you have, and don't lose sight of this perspective.

When I am down, I remind myself that millions of people, who don't even have opportunities, would do anything to live in my shoes.

coryandtrevorforever · 2016-09-22T02:39:52+00:00

I'm in similar circumstances and there are some things I keep in mind that make it much easier. I long for companionship sometimes, but then I remember that it could never be true companionship because of the element of deception. Real intimacy won't be possible, so I would just be fooling myself and letting her fool me. For the sexual needs, it is a great era to be a bachelor in. You can get a fleshlight or a similar device, and there is unlimited porn of all kinds right at our fingertips. No risk of STDs or pregnancy either so it is really risk-free fun.

Title	Help me Brothers
Author	theeesenuts
Upvotes	5
Comments	9
Date	September 21, 2016 5:41 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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