I've been lurking and learning here for nearly a month, and in that short space of time what I came here for has changed dramatically.

At first, I thought I came here to learn how to get laid easily(lazy), but the more I read and observed the more I thought about what I really wanted. I realized that getting laid easily wouldn't make me happy.

When I was younger I followed a fair amout of what is recommended here, although probably not the way it should be ideally, but I was railed for it by a lot of the people in my life (mostly women). Years later of questioning myself, losing a lot of confidence and become more beta than I should ever have been, I found TRP.

A lot of my friends are blue pill and have no problem perpetuating the cycle. Too many focus on pussy and do terribly (for various reasons), and what's worse is that they think my not chasing pussy is a problem, that if I just become cool it'd be no problem. One of them even suggested that I talk to a girl with no SMV ( in my opinion) simply to "get back in it". I didn't.

I've started reading a lot of the suggested books here. Started lifting. Working on a healthy diet, and identifying what I like and what I want to do with my life. I've cut some of the toxic women that were way too involved in my life and working on cutting the toxic friends. No one decides what's cool to me or what girl is good for me anymore. I do.

And for guys who have recently swallowed the pill. We can only do so much reading. It's not going to be easy. It's going to fucking hurt. You're going to lose people. Man up and do it. And if you do swallow the pill..do it for yourself and because you want to change and you want self-improvement.

I've lost people. I know that I'll lose others, but that'll just mean that they weren't good for me and my happiness in the first place. I've met new people already. And I have TRP as well.

What else could you need ?