...or so it appears to me. I like women and I like being around them. I see no need to avoid their company. But it really does seem that men have some major disadvantages vis-a-vis women where marriage and children are concerned. We see horror stories here all the time about the privileges women are granted around those issues. Such that men should avoid them or, at the very least, be ready to be screwed. I.E., children may be worth the high probability of being screwed. That's a decision every man must make for himself.

The chances that a man will be screwed are very, very high, and too many men seem to either not know that, or think it's somehow not going to happen to them. Or they allow themselves to be emotionally blackmailed by families and women into accepting such a bad risk.

So, we help other men by continuing to tell horror stories, so that they will know what they have such a high probability of facing. And we can act as resources for other men who avoid marriage and children AND for men who take on the risk. We can help each other overcome emotional blackmail techniques where women use them. We can offer advice on how reasonable behaviors and beliefs are, for men who need that. E.G., the family is putting pressure on, the woman is using manipulation to get her man to "man up." We can be the voice of opposition, and maybe support a brother who is being told by some very influential people in his life how selfish he is for balking.