MGTOWs with daughters

lonewolf-chicago · 2016-07-14T21:43:47+00:00

My daughter is 10, but very very smart and analytical so I have had many conversations with her about boys, the differences in males and females and why there are differences. I have had to teach her that men are stronger than women.. destroying all the bullshit that the Chicago Public School System Mangina's and Feminists teach her.

She has asked me many questions about why boys act a certain way, I take the conversation deep - going into some red pill (pua) teachings about evolution and tribe-like behavior and why traditionally it wasn't safe to approach girls, etc.

I teach my daughter to respect boys, they are different. Once in a while she will say a boy was acting weird and I always break down his behavior and why he is likely acting that way or pointing out that it wasn't weird.

I teach her to never disrespect boys or men - I show her and explain cautionary tales of her Aunts who are all over 40 AND ALONE and why.

She has Aunts that are just childhood friends of my Ex that are your typical cougar (most of them without the looks). I teach her why they can't keep a man, why men don't like women that are a certain way. I teach her how to be a good woman and responsibilities of being an adult woman and how to treat men.

I make her earn everything that she gets (mostly). For example, I trained her to be competitive by doing things like having competitions of who can jump further off the swing set - I give her incentives like "if you can beat me, I'll buy you an American Girl Doll." I didn't think she would , but she actually did. Then I taught her that she EARNED it and nothing given for free is worth anything.<--- I don't bet like that anymore.. ha ha

We have had conversations about approaching boys and making boys feel comfortable if they approach her on the playground. etc.

At first she was very hesitant about asking me questions and talking about boys... after 2 or 3 conversations she approaches me with questions.

My whole philosophy is to tell her everything I know to be true or useful so that she can be the type of person that a guy would call a NAWALT in 15 years. Whatever happens, happens - but it won't be for a lack of trying.

I am constantly reminding myself that she is going to choose someone based on my behavior. She asks me, "Daddy, why do you open the door for me all the time?" I tell her that she should expect to be treated like a lady by her boyfriends and if she gets married - by her husband.

Etc, Etc, Etc.

lonewolf-chicago · 2016-07-14T18:39:53+00:00

Mine is going to hit puberty soon, and my plan is to make sure she provides value. I'm not going to preach to her that she should avoid dating, that won't happen. Her mom will try to teach her things, and I have to undo that.

I try to give her as much love and attention as I can, but I refuse to give her trophies for showing up.

I plan to challenge her thinking a lot. I will ask her what value she provides in a relationship, and all comments about being cute I will deflect with innocent statements. "But I'm cute!" "So are puppies. What makes you special?"

It's going to be quite a challenge.

grasshopa · 2016-07-14T18:49:38+00:00

I'm teaching my daughter that there is no value in being given things. She will only find value in things she provides for herself.

I'm teaching her that all relationships are to be equitable; you balance what you take with what you receive, and anytime a relationship becomes unequal you cut it loose.

I'm teaching her to have honor in all things; speak the truth, do the right thing, value herself above all others.

I'm teaching her that the world will try to corrupt her because she's a blond haired, blue eyed girl, and that that corruption will leave her feeling empty and devoid of value. Never accept handouts, never accept being treated disrespectfully and never treat others with disrespect.

We've discussed the concept of self agency, but it's hard for children to grasp that; it's not really a concept that can be fully taught or explored until people are adults.

These are just a few things I'm trying to teach her.

realpra · 2016-07-14T20:18:54+00:00

Honestly if you actually trained them to be divorce-rapists with full red pill knowledge your daughters would be set for life.

A little more moral stuff:

Maybe teach them how to invest and save. Suggest to them taking a real education (STEM) if they can.
Teach them about STDs, the wall and female fertility. Tell them to get a good guy (successful late twenties/nice/healthy) while young (15-20). Have some healthy babies and THEN get/finish a STEM education.
Tell them to always blame themselves first and accept responsibility because that is how the world actually works.
Be honest and tell them that guys will literally worship them, but their lives will be empty if that is all they use. (and suuuck when older)

Eina84 · 2016-07-15T05:32:09+00:00

Most of the time you don't say anything to her.........because the mother has poisoned her little mind against her father & also refuses to allow the court-awarded weekend visitation rights. Police reports against the mother for hiding the daughter are ignored but if I am a day late paying alimony the cops are knocking on my door.

So the daughter turns into a self-entitled parasite like her mother.

999sweetlover · 2016-07-14T22:27:07+00:00

I have a friend who is structured Christian and he as plans for his daughters.

To avoid rape. Take responsibility for actions that lead up to it. Don't dress or be slutty, don't get Black out drunk, etc. Many times rape is preventable but women want to pretend that it is unavoidable.
That being a slut is the worst thing a woman becomes.
To not buy into the fact women are equal to men.
They will be dating from a pool of pre-approved men. Dating starts at 15/16. They need to have all the children they want before 27.
They will do only wholesome activites.
They will follow the leadership of a man.
He will disown them if they do not stay virgins until marriage. He will get them tested.

givecake · 2016-07-15T02:40:15+00:00

I'm going to attempt to convince my daughter that dating is bad. And it truly is. I'm not saying every single date is terrible, but the potential is higher for it to be a bad thing than a good thing.

Compare dating to courting, and you have two very different environments. Dating is 1on1. The two are away from their parents and family, and can act how they like. No-one is going to call them out for being bad, or fake. In courting, this is much less likely to be so. The family is within view most of the time, and a suitor must not only make a good impression on the girl/guy, they must also make a good impression on the family. Most importantly, you can see how a girl or guy treats people she or he is most close to already. This is how she/he will treat you when you get close. Obviously one event is not enough, you would need to have many courting events.

You want to teach your child what kind of behavioural cues to pick up on way in advance. Some people are good actors, and it takes a bit more focus and know-how to spot bad behaviour.

Yes. I'm aware this reduces the potential suitors to about 3 people worldwide. And no, I don't care. This would benefit men so much more than it would women.

Lastly, I want to teach my daughter that marrying or having a partner is not necessary in life, and encourage her to be independent enough without a guy, and I'd do more so for a son if I had one. This way, she's not going to be as tempted to be bad as the great many of entirely useless females that walk the earth.

SammyMac19 · 2016-07-15T17:32:45+00:00

Thanks for the chiming in, fellas! Learned a lot from this so far. If I ever decide to have children, and end up with a daughter, there's some real good advice here.

I think a real big thing I would teach my daughter is that monogamy is tricky, and that relationships/marriage are nowhere close to a necessity. Mainly because that's how I feel about them. I love the idea of challenging your kids to achieve what they want and to work for it. I'm part of a generation (and much of the generation after mine) that reeks of self-entitlement and I refuse to have my kid be like that as well. You're entitled to nothing, and there's a fantastic gratification in succeeding when you've put in the work to do so. Respect is also key. Respect the boys and men, treat them nicely, and more times than not you will receive the same.

Title	MGTOWs with daughters
Author	SammyMac19
Upvotes	7
Comments	18
Date	July 14, 2016 6:21 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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