Two questions about MGTOW

Benny757 · 2016-07-14T18:57:51+00:00

Being over 50 and after many failed relationships, I finally swallowed the red pill first, got my head in order, then I took an inventory.

That said, I revisited in memory all of those relationships, the good times, and the overwhelming horrible times. And in every single relationship, the hell and the horrible so far outweighed the good times, that I literally sprinted into the world of MGTOW.

Also, just YOUTUBE search CRAZY EX GIRLFRIEND. There are so many examples of the horror show that men in this day would be nuts to LTR or marry.

realpra · 2016-07-14T19:46:46+00:00

Wife started going crazy and hitting me for no reason. I was somewhat blue pill, but there was really not much to work with.

What really made me MGTOW was the TOTAL lack of respect for men shown by my wife, the law AND society. Never again.

Eyes_Of_The_Dragon · 2016-07-14T19:35:21+00:00

I am divorced. The times in my life when I was happiest were when I rarely ever dealt with women, and just focused on my own pursuits.

It's not just about the sex, it's about the attention and being thought of as sexy. That's what women want.

Mathematicianer · 2016-07-15T00:06:19+00:00

I was falsely accused of rape and then later raped (and mocked) by a woman. Talk about the mother of ironies. I have absolutely no misgivings about avoiding contact with women until they prove to be reasonable human beings, and even then I keep my distance.

mechdemon · 2016-07-14T22:19:04+00:00

Neither, I fall under option 3:

Having done a cost/benefit analysis of dating, modern relationships and marriage, I opted out. There is too much risk in the aforementioned activities for little to no reward.

BigFaction · 2016-07-14T22:43:29+00:00

I feel as though I was always MGTOW. At an early age dating never really interested me. As I grew older I realized I liked being single and doing my own thing. My personality just won't work well in a dating situation. I see what some of my blue pill friends go through and never once have I wanted a life like that.

project_mayhem_ · 2016-07-14T23:58:16+00:00

1) c) marriage and family no longer exist as legally or socially enforced institutions. "dating" is bullshit. therefore, there are no accepted paths for me to interact with women that don't rob me of my dignity.

2) yes, both sexes tend to project their own traits onto the other. This knowledge has not dampened my physiological response to women. After all, it's not fun if she doesn't fight back a little bit.

SpaceObama · 2016-07-15T02:18:42+00:00

Learning about human biology and then comparing it to our social narrative. A relationship naturally would last 4-6 years before both partners split ways. This was enough time for both the child and the mother to recover to the point where they can fend for themselves.

Learning psychology of addiction. The ups, downs, and all-arounds of being in a relationship fit the addiction model to a T. Heart broken over a break up? Youre in withdrawal. Lost that spark? You've become habituated and have developed a tolerance. This is the mechanism behind my first point. Trying MDMA and being in love with everything and everyone I saw further cemented this concept. Its all chemicals. We advise against addiction in other forms except for "love" (and food).

Destruction of religion. It took the threat of eternal damnation to keep the unnatural institution of marriage in check. Even then, there was behind the scenes hanky panky on both sides. With the destruction of religion and normalization of divorce and single motherhood, we are heading back towards a more "natural" concept of male-female relationships-a temporary one. But society and the law have failed to see or respond to this.

Seeing "sad dads" being pushed around by their wives (and aometimes daughters) like they are imbecile children.

Watching friends disappear because their girlfriends disapproved of them having fun with anyone else but themselves. I even did this to my own friends. The pussy power is real. And dangerous.

I could keep going but thats the gist of it. I dont know why people think MGTOWs are sexually frustrated with woman. Thats theredpill's beef. MGTOWs are emotionally frustrated with them. Woman have a hard time believing men can have emotions, ao ai think that's where the confusion may come from.

FrankWunder · 2016-07-15T00:26:52+00:00

Weighing facts are important, but it all really does come down to a simple axiom: if I don't want to do something, I don't have to do it and woe betide the person who fools themselves into thinking that they can or will be the one to change my mind. I remain unmoved in my decision.

Zombocom1911 · 2016-07-15T00:10:01+00:00

I think its bullshit that women don't have a tremendous sex drive, especially if you study bonobos , with which we share 99.9999% of our DNA....

Since our culture includes playful foreplay in sex, and that is what bonobos actually do, most of the time, I think its stupid to say that human women don't enjoy at least foreplay as much as men enjoy actual penetrative sex

Furthermore, women are not the only ones who selflessly do sex acts for their partners benefit. What about we men who really take pride in our mastery of cunnilingus? What do we get out of that, aside from being happy to know that she is receiving one sided pleasure from the act of licking her pussy.

Title	Two questions about MGTOW
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Date	July 14, 2016 6:44 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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