Sexually Unavailable Wife Fails at Backpeddling.

2016-07-14T00:14:29+00:00

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Griever114 · 2016-07-13T23:51:36+00:00

It's not porn that killed their relationship. I would bet my paycheque that her husband wasn't getting the validation and emotional connection he wanted from his wife. She made the assumption that all he cared about was sex and missed fulfilling the needs she really should have.

Teflon0819 · 2016-07-14T02:14:23+00:00

What did porn have to do with the woman in the story's hamster reaching faster than light speeds?

The de-hamstered and summarized translation of the story is as follows:

"I'm emotionally distant, rarely let my husband fuck me, and when I do, I'm a cold fish. Our marriage is on the rocks, and I'm driving him into the arms of another woman. Maybe if I just throw my body at him as frequently as possible, that will fix our marriage?

Nope."

And in an even more spectacular display of hamstering, the author that cited the story blames porn for the outcome. Wow.

cynicalsimon · 2016-07-14T02:54:23+00:00

the modern women perceives sex with her intimate male partner, "as a chore"...keep in mind the difference between a platonic and intimate relationship is sex.

..she's lazy and she doesn't care about you, so why date women? sure, its a general statement, but it happens time and time again. women don't seem to care about anyone but themselves. OH, but when its her time to get some action, you got to fucking spring up, be enthusiastic about it, 'mind their insecurities' and spend countless hour, days, weeks, months to make them comfortable...al the while she doesn't give a fuck how you get off.

Now that's double standards!

Zombocom1911 · 2016-07-14T02:04:47+00:00

It's a great article. As someone who has consumed a ton of porn from a young age, I think it can truly be very informative for women and wives to really take a good hard look and try to analyze, why porn is so popular worldwide, and is consumed so voraciously, and is so intriguing to men, and ask the question, what are the common themes and types of sexuality that men look to porn for? First it must be understood that men look to porn for those things BECAUSE they are missing those things in real life. What I mean is, as shocking as this may sound, the essential characteristics of porn consumed worldwide , taken into consideration as a whole, and then averaged, exists as a very real representation to what men ACTUALLY, REALLY DO WANT in their everyday lives, and that they are NOT getting. This make come as a severe shock to women who just assumed that porn is mere fantasy to men, and dismissed it as that.

I assure you, that it isn't just mere fantasy. If someone wants to really understand this, they need to watch a LOT of porn, and see what the average porn is really about. The average porn is not abusive or misogynistic as some feminists are led to believe (that type of extreme porn, is a small niche within porn), rather, women should study lots of porn, because, contrary to popular belief, I am suggesting that when porn is looked at in its entirety, as a whole, is a very accurate, ACTUAL representation of precisely what's lacking in the lives of the typical sexually unfulfilled male worldwide, and by watching lots of it, you will get a very real idea of that.

The wife in the story tried to save her marriage by changing into a pornstar , by mainly focusing on her appearance. Appearance is one thing, and sure, it is very important, to be certain to be in good shape, sexy clothing, hair and makeup, but not all men think that fake breasts on a pornstar are attractive, or that being shaved or Brazilian waxed is all that important. As a lifelong porn consumer, I'd like to suggest that the most important thing about being more like pornstars, is better learned by focusing on their ATTITUDE towards sex.

Pornstars, unlike "ordinary" women, are extremely sex-positive human beings , in that they don't feel much sense of shame or guilt or inhibitions about sex, and are proud of their bodies, and are not shy or timid in any way about sex. Take for example the career of the sex-positive feminist pornstar, Nina Hartley. If you watch her porn scenes and her interviews, you can begin to get a very good sense of what she special quality she has, that other women don't , and what men admire in her. In fact, I truly believe if you sum totaled and took the average of every porn film ever made, and then just examined the overall ATTIUDE or personality, of a female pornstar, the thing that stands out, would be a certain sense of boldness or even wild ferocity about sex, that ordinary women are uncomfortable with, that would be their defining personality trait, that differentiates them from the normal population of women. TLDR? What would I say defines the attitude of a pornstar more than anything? Pornstars are FIERCE. .... and that is exactly what makes them so intriguing.

Also, as a long time porn aficionado , I think I can accurately speculate, that while it is one thing to try to copy their attitude, personality, clothing, makeup, and body type and grooming, as the wife in the article did, but it is COMPLETELY another thing to actually learn to tap into that inner sexual tigress authentically. That is the hallmark of porn legends like Nina Hartley.

I disagree with the wife's conclusion that Porn kills love. Porn can help women learn to love a side of themselves that they are uncomfortable with, and that men would certainly love them for.

Cristoff13 · 2016-07-14T09:24:02+00:00

Women know, instinctively, that sex is how they control their meal ticket. So they treat their husband's dick as their personal property and get very jealous when its used without their permission, even for masturbation.

Griever114 · 2016-07-14T14:00:16+00:00

I found this hilarious. The marriage was over WELL BEFORE she attempted to save it. Congrats, she realized that becoming a fatass, wearing sweats all day and ignoring her husband, GASP, would make him look at other women.

NO SHIT MORON.

He was likely cheating on her at this point when she gave up on herself. Yeah, he cheated and i dont condone it but she wasnt exactly doing anything to keep him interested.

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lonewolf-chicago · 2016-07-14T11:06:29+00:00

Nothing posted from the Huffington Post should ever be on here (the orig article was huffpost)

Title	Sexually Unavailable Wife Fails at Backpeddling.
Author	JPDG
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Comments	15
Date	July 13, 2016 10:36 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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