I cant stand it. My mum orders my dad round all day. Hes totally below beta and does anything she wants and never thinks about it even once. He always speaks in a low and shy tone and it makes me fucking angry that he makes such a victim out of himself. I remember how badly this influenced me in my youth.

Today it has hit a new level, my mum was awaiting soemone to chop off shit in the garden and she told my dad to stand at the street (like this idiot doesnt have the adress....) so that he "sees us". My dad followed the orders and i felt ashamed as fuck. He literally just stood there while my mum sat in the garden reading and drinking coffe.

It happens all day. He lost all masculine energy. He then comes to my desk when i work on something and asks me how to copy files on a computer when in fact he teached me this as a kid. He is really a victim from his whole mentality. He makes a big deal out of anything and loves to worry and to watch sad shit on the TV where you can cry about it how bad it is. I cant fucking stand it i try to be nice to him but over time i lose it because he asks me shit that babys and victims ask like "should i cook 8 or 10 potatos?" "should i do this or that?" and when he refused to copy his own files to his USB stick i fucking lost it. i told him hes a fucking baby and he freaked out like "i do anything for this family" (which is a lie) i feel like reversed roles and it makes me aggressive as fuck which is a healthy response if you ask me. im normally pretty chill.

I wonder what i can do to help him out of this misery. He doesnt speak english or understand it.