I am fucking sick of my family (especially my cousin [22F]) telling me how I should live and constantly asking me why I dont have a girlfriend

[deleted] · 2016-10-01T09:48:52+00:00

Hi.

Take it from me. Ignore her. In fact, don't even talk to her anymore. When she starts in telling you how to live, walk away. Mid sentence. Just leave and let her talk to herself.

Look, I can go into my life and explain I been where you are, but I'm in a cell so just take my word for it.

She starts blabbing about your life = you immediately beat feet. Don't even say bye. Just go do something better or start another chat with someone else. Go take a shit or something. Anything.

aanarchist · 2016-10-01T11:38:44+00:00

it's not like they actually care dude they're just bothering you cuz they're supposed to

summersss · 2016-10-01T19:36:53+00:00

You are a high value male in her eyes and she wants credit for hooking you up with her girlfriends. She's basically trying to pimp you out.

That and women seem to hate when what they see as good marriage material is roaming free. Would like to know if anyone has examples of this?

dgillz · 2016-10-01T09:50:14+00:00

I also run my own business so I don't have to go to work

I'd love to hear an explanation on this. When I started my business my hours increased - but so did my earnings.

32643264 · 2016-10-01T13:00:34+00:00

You need to work on your emotional control.

By that, I mean you have to stop caring about other people's opinions. You need to learn this skill because for the rest of your life you will have to navigate a mine field of other people's opinions, emotions etc. If you let another person's emotions or feelings affect you, you have lost. This is what happens when people say "you fell into their frame".

I actually suggest the opposite of walking away from this girl, especially because of her proximity and because she is familial. Do a little social experiment. Next time you see her, engage her purposefully. You already know what she is going to say to you regarding women/girlfriends. Let her. Take it all in. Don't fight it. Let her say what's she s going to say. Taken it all in? Good. Now, let that shit roll right off of you.

You know what she was going to say, you expected it and then you let her have her beliefs and you still have yours. Simple, right? Do not act emotional or butthurt. Continue the conversation about whatever YOU want to talk about and then move on to talk with someone else. Walking away mid sentence shows you cannot control yourself. You are a man, talking to a child. Act like it.

Also, if this all comes off, congratulate yourself. Youve taken your first baby step into learning how to become Machiavellian. What you have done is manipulate the situation in your favor and in turn, manipulate your cousin. And she doesnt even know it.

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Title	I am fucking sick of my family (especially my cousin [22F]) telling me how I should live and constantly asking me why I dont have a girlfriend
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Date	October 1, 2016 9:43 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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