Keep shaming Fleshlights: "Me [35M] with my wife [35F] of 7 years, we've never had sex"

MaterialMaverick · 2016-05-22T23:33:17+00:00

Something tells me the husband is the only celibate one in this shitty arrangement.

lostapwbm · 2016-05-22T23:38:38+00:00

The relationship isn’t abusive and she hasn't cheated, but we never have sex...

This might be the Catholic education talking, but a "marriage" that was never consummated is voidable.

After about two-three years she found out that she had vaginismus (caused from trauma when she was younger).

Did you contact her dentist for a second opinion?

If your wife or girlfriend refuses to suck your dick, she doesn't love you because she derives no emotional validation from giving you pleasure or happiness.

...whenever I ask what I can do to help she tells me “nothing.”

The correct answer to this is "okay, bitch." Then go do something you want to do. You need to treat women like they are optional and never like they are necessary.

. I used my work benefits to talk to a counselor but they didn’t really help. When I told them how I wasn’t happy in my marriage and why that was (we hadn’t had sex yet), they would tell me I should get a divorce. One of them told me that because she didn’t warn me before we got married that I was within my right to do so.

Stands up and salutes the American flag as F-15s fly overhead

'Murica. Fuck yeah.

...instead we went to marriage/sex counseling for a little while.

Aww, dammit! Dammit man! Why? Why, why, why? You had the right idea. You were off the hook. No nookie, the marriage never happened!

While she’s very kind to our friends and family (for the most part), she often treats others very rudely. This bothers me because I feel like you should treat everyone with respect and kindness.

Women have one set of rules for their in-group, and another for outsiders.

More often than not she blames other factors (be it people or something else) for problems instead of taking responsibility and trying to fix what she can.

Hamsters gonna hamster.

The biggest thing holding me back from going through with it: she doesn’t have anyone else in her life. Both her parents have passed away and she doesn’t get along with the rest of her brothers and hasn’t talked to them in years. She has friends, but back to one of the points that I made, I don’t think she treats them well and doesn’t foster the relationship as well as she should. She’s told me this before and I can definitely feel it, but essentially I’m her everything.

Do you feel it when her thighs rub together? You should, because you are her emotional tampon, which is the closest you'll ever get to being between her thighs. She is pouring out the waste and filth and poison of her soul onto you, and she'll keep doing it until she wears you down to the desiccated ruin of a man, which is when it will be time for her to Eat, Pray, Love.

You cannot heal this bitch. You cannot fix her. She will not love you the way you want to be loved. Hit the eject button on this marriage, or she will destroy whatever self-respect and happiness you might ever have.

2016-05-23T00:09:21+00:00

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cynicalsimon · 2016-05-23T01:13:43+00:00

They haven't had sex!?The guys a cuck. NO SEX= A FRIENDSHIP NOT A RELATIONSHIP

NaughtyFred · 2016-05-23T02:32:24+00:00

There's a documentary about the band Metallica. At one point they are in "counselling" and the singer and the drummer start to argue...the guitarist slaps his own forehead in a "Really? This dumb shit again?" way.

That's how I felt reading this dumb S.O.B's life story.

Zegy · 2016-05-23T08:00:00+00:00

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fatfuckinglenny191 · 2016-05-24T21:23:02+00:00

I read the entire thing with the voice of Mort Goldman ( jewish guy from family guy) in my head.

Title	Keep shaming Fleshlights: "Me [35M] with my wife [35F] of 7 years, we've never had sex"
Author	another_lease
Upvotes	19
Comments	17
Date	May 22, 2016 10:54 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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