[FR]: - Failed to escalate, lost out

RedSovereign · 2016-10-06T18:53:35+00:00

Questions belong in /r/asktrp.

MattyAnon · 2016-10-06T13:23:34+00:00

. Instead of going for the kiss, I

Actually kissing is often a bad idea in public and early on. It can trigger early LMR and make her feel slutty (not in a good way).

Ijustgotcucked

This is not cucking, you are not raising someone else's child.

This girls sounds like she's not worth bothering with. It's her job to show some small amount of commitment and put some work in too, otherwise she's just another low-invested likely-to-cheat ho, as indeed you found out.

Should I soft next, hard next, or try and plate her?

Whatever, it literally doesn't matter.

statface21 · 2016-10-06T13:02:53+00:00

that dude totally banged her and her flatmates are trying to cover

lanky32 · 2016-10-06T15:32:47+00:00

Nothing is lost. Engage her after a week or two. That gives her some time to forget your beta mistakes.To be honest, I don't even think that you were too beta.

modex20 · 2016-10-06T16:32:54+00:00

the worst number of women to have in your life is 1

markinsinz7 · 2016-10-06T18:38:11+00:00

Forget about all that cucking and nexting, want to focus more on the closing part. Can someone actually say what he should have done instead? I mean I've been and seen so many guys in this situation, grinding, intense kino, etc and then suddenly the girl gets dragged out, it'd be a great 'improve ur club game' post if someone could get this answer...obviously discard the usual context of having abundance mentality, logistics etc ...

LordThunderbolt · 2016-10-06T13:40:46+00:00

Don't mess with chicks that are obviously drunk. Honestly, you did good. You showed some beta qualities, but by ignoring her on the second night you showed alpha qualities. Your best bet now it's a hail mary, invite her to have a drink with u alone.

favours_of_the_moon · 2016-10-06T14:02:03+00:00

You didn't lose out, she did.

SHE, is not the prize. If you really wanted her, you'd have been more aggressive and gone for it. Make her earn it, man.

Title	[FR]: - Failed to escalate, lost out
Author	tiberianwolf
Upvotes	6
Comments	12
Date	October 6, 2016 12:15 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5652eh/fr_failed_to_escalate_lost_out/
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