So my mum was gone in our toxic family. My dad and i did get along better than in 10 years. It was an eye opener for me. It was a chill mood and suddenly no more fighting and we progressed in the relation we have. It was clear it was good for him when she was away. The first days i was like maybe its just like that for today but it stayed like that.

As soon as my mum was back, she poisoned the atmosphere just after 2 hours. She said what she doesnt like and instantly poisoned my dad with "what i should or shouldnt do " ..... now i see all the time she was the one that poisoned hin, just in hiding. When im away she rants about me and makes all bad.

Kind of depressing to see that the "playing it nice mum" is the toxic one....Eye opener....