I work at a pork store and in the same strip there is a bagel store. I go in there and the girl there greets me blah blah blah she is kinda cute. I don’t make any moves. Time moves on and I get more friendly with her. Eventually I would walk into the store and she would initiate conversation after I make my order and I would make her laugh.

Some more time goes by and I will go in and she will start to give me discounts on stuff and is still friendly towards me.

More time goes by and my co worker says to me that I should make a move. Although I think this girl is cute I don’t like where my current SMV is at and have low self esteem. The co worker who is telling me to make a move is a BP Alpha who has fucked many women but has many issues in his LTR.

So... Today I go into work and a couple hours into my shift the BP Alpha walks up to me and says “oh the girl at the bagel store was looking for you.” He went to order something and she was asking about everyone’s order. To make it clear when I go to the bagel store I walk around the store I work at and ask everyone what they want and then i memorize it. So the girl only sees me walk into the store and order an abundance of items and pay all using my co workers cards. Anyways, when my co worker was in the store she started asking who orders what. The BP Alpha is a big guy who orders a 6 egg omelette with pork and ham in it. So the girl asks “who orders the 6 egg omelette. I don’t think it’s RalphyStevens he is small” for context I am 5,6’ 120LBS. So after getting this information the BO Alpha comes back. I go into work a few hours later and he tells me she was looking for me and asking what days I work.

The BP Alpha started pressing me hard saying I should go after her and take her out. He started jokingly saying “you should walk up to her and say you wanna cream cheese her bagel.” He is saying this and pressing me to go for it in front of everyone I work with. A girl I worked with was brought into the conversation to get her opinion on how I should proceed.

So here’s the thing. Idk what to do. If I don’t get this girls number everyone is going to perceive me as a bitch which I don’t really care ab but ik I will probably lose a level of respect. I am a small dude but taller than this girl by a couple inches.

A part of me wants to go and ask her out but another part of me tells me I shouldn’t especially after hearing that she called me small, yet her interest in me has increased greatly. After I would finish telling her my order she would kinda sit there waiting for me to say something else. As if she wants me to ask her out. But I’m not sure. I haven’t even kissed a girl in a year and don’t have a high interest in women right now although I feel kinda lonely.

I apologize for my long rant. Any help would be good. Thank you if you read the whole thing.