Hi,

I've been in a relationship for about 3 years now. I am red-pilled.

Thing is though, I think there are two parts of a woman. The Person, and the Woman. The crazy, evil things a woman does happen because of her hormones, inability to reason effectively, weird psychology etc. etc. This is the Woman.

But I do believe that other half is there - the Person. I am not naive and I realize the woman eventually winds up in charge and will fuck up your life.

But this Person I spend my time with actually matters to me. In the same way that friends matter to me, my mother, my father before he passed. I'm talking basic human decency here.

I don't mind helping her out in life as LONG AS ITS ON MY TERMS. I realize, every woman will absolutely make you a slave if you let her. She'll hate you for it, and she'll hate herself even more, but she will enslave you anyway - it's like they can't help themselves.

But still, I do care. She is not underserving of basic human consideration, and has yet to do me harm.

How do you reconcile these two realities?