Thought I'd outline my own experience with Tinder, as others here have done:

Tinder is no longer a hookup app, as it was [briefly] in it's inception. What I've learned is that women primarily use it for validation because of their tendency to be super self-conscious goons. In other words, they match for the sake of matching and only message the borderline 10/10's, because they have that option. Only about 20% of the girls I message actually respond [and I'm always the first to message, by nature]. And if they do respond, they're either uninterested or uninteresting. It's just fucking WEIRD, honestly. There was one girl who I finally had a decent conversation, and she came over to my place to hang out for a while. We chilled, smoked, and talked, which I was fine with. After that, I continued asking her out to lunch, dinner, movies, etc. - whatever I was doing or had time for. And I wasn't pushy or 'beta' in the way I would ask, or the frequency. Every single time, she'd say she was busy or had other shit going on. That's fine, and expected, but it's like damn, you fucking pick a time then... I started asking her that outright - like "when are you free?" But it never lead anywhere. I decided I'd ask her one last time if she'd want to go out, and if she didn't reciprocate, I'd stop talking to her. So now I just don't message her anymore. It's so frustrating because she was chill, cute (but not hot), and seemed interested, but it ended up being extremely one-sided. Beyond this one girl, the majority of the others who have responded are just fucking boring...They bring nothing to the convo and aren't worth the energy.

It's annoying and more trouble that it's worth. Not only do you have to filter through all the bullshit (You have to match, then message them, then keep a conversation going, then ask them out or whatever, etc.), but even after that it's not likely anything will come of it. I've never met up with anyone else from Tinder, and I've only had one other interesting, engaging conversation out of dozens of matches. Long story short...don't waste your time.

When I tell this to the women I know, they act surprised that I've only ever met up with one girl from Tinder

 

So I'm curious: Has anyone else here actually hooked up with women from Tinder, or gone on dates, etc? If so, how many out of how many matches? Was your experience similar to mine, in regards to how much BS you have to filter through to meet up or get a date out of one girl? Etc.

 

inb4: "You're not really MGTOW because you date or want to date"