Why all the slut shaming?

IM_0228 · 2020-01-29T21:27:53+00:00

You're really naive huh. To ask such a statement like this, you don't grasp the understanding of what it means to value yourself and how that translates into interpersonal relationships with other people.

You're at the wrong subred bud.

myowndrum00100 · 2020-01-29T21:41:23+00:00

Being a slut comes at the cost of losing the ability to pair bond. If the only sex you have is passing and shallow, then you're not going to be able to bond sexually with just one person. And that is the bedrock of all monogamous relationships, upon which families and child-rearing lie.

A woman can be a slut if she wants. But that means that's all she's good for. Fun for a roll in the hay, but incapable of being wife and mother material. How would I know that she's actually satisfied sexually with just me, and would remain so in perpetuity, when all historical evidence points to the contrary?

I absolutely agree: her body, her choice. But that also applies to me. I'm not obligated to fuck, love, or commit to a slut. There are consequences to promiscuity, and any woman who behaves as such is choosing to accept those consequences. Not my problem if she doesn't like them.

BroscienceGuy · 2020-01-29T21:48:55+00:00

You can look up studies and it shows how women with higher partner count tend to have WAY MORE divorces and they can't bond.

Now I don't care. I care however when those same sluts trick a man into loving them and essentially destroying him emotionally or if married they take half his stuff too.

Also I care about the wellbeing of women too. They shouldn't risk getting diseases and becoming numb to the point they don't enjoy anything in the world.

But I don't want anything to do with women. That's a personal choice

2020-01-29T21:31:04+00:00

They can be sluts or whatever the fuck they want as long as they don't spread diseases. Showing skin and spreading legs is the easiest job in the world for a woman though.

If they are so proud, why are they ashamed to tell or hide this when getting into a long term relationship? Perhaps they are ashamed and afraid of the consequences of their past actions?

It gets different when they want to be a wife and mother. You can't make a ho a housewife. Hence they want to have their cake and eat it too. Actions have consequences and men can have standards too by not marrying them. But if men refuse they are shamed and suddenly have a Peter Pan syndrome.

stfducky489 · 2020-01-29T21:26:59+00:00

the problem is how they hold the dna from everyone they sleep with.

captainsaveahoe69 · 2020-01-29T21:48:20+00:00

I love sluts!

GoodMan_Gone · 2020-01-29T21:55:31+00:00

I'm not slut shaming anyone. And I agree: women can do with their bodies whatever I want. But in face of all equality the MAIN agenda of feminism, just as a reminder: so can I with my body. And in that agenda it's my perfect right to be disgusted beyond believe about those hags with their hideous tattoos and over piercing. My lvl of disgust is that high I actually value prostitutes way higher than the average woman out there. At least prostitutes are (mostly) honest. So I totally agree OP. And I'm not shaming them: I'm shunning them.

TigPlaze · 2020-01-29T21:37:26+00:00

She risks getting STDs, which can infect you if you sleep with her. It also destroys her ability to pair bond with a man. If you marry a woman who has had more than 6 sex partners or so, it dramatically increases the chances that the marriage will fail. It goes from a 50% success rate to about a 10% or lower. The marriage odds are already terrible. Why on earth would any man marry with the odds having been made much worse? Basically, a woman who has banged scores of men has no SMV left.

DangZagnut · 2020-01-29T21:39:31+00:00

I do t shame sluts, I prefer sluts as lovers because true sluts don’t lie and pretend they’re something they aren’t.

There’s sluts, and girls lying about not being sluts.

I’ll take the honest ones.

Trad cucks, and sexual puritans care about that shit. People chasing unicorn wives and virgins and LTRs.

If you’re chasing that stupid shit, knock yourself out and wife up that girl who tells you she’s a virgin. Nothing ever goes wrong with that.

NietzscheExplosion · 2020-01-29T22:42:06+00:00

Its the cry rape shit after... its the bitching and moaning about "games" after..its the fucking STD ridden fucking hoes costing me tax money to fix their fucking party lifestyle shit health.

If theyd just fuck around and not complain id call it even.

Magnolia1008 · 2020-01-29T21:29:04+00:00

agreed. but as you'll notice with all female behavior -- they shame themselves. such shaming usually is born from jealousy. women who are sexually open with men get A LOT OF ATTENTION from Men. Hence women are jealous and shame the girls who do -- it's a power move. Everything women do is to get power over you. That's their goal and endgame, and sex is the easiest way to do it -- they've known this since day 1.

Hecades · 2020-01-29T21:32:11+00:00

I have nothing against it.

I mean, she can go ahead and everyday have different guy - I cheer her on that.

I just have high requirements for companionship and either she's a virgin, or we can just exchange smiles and that's it.

Cautious-Roof · 2020-01-29T21:45:05+00:00

We don't care if they sleep with the whole town. Just don't expect us to marry them. Just like men aren't entitled to sex women are not entitled to marriage. Especially when they exhibit qualities that show how unmarriageable they are. If you have to lie to your partner about your past you will never have a good marriage. Also men don't want to marry promiscuous women cause it's a greater chance of her leaving and taking your stuff in a divorce. So by all means slut it up but don't get mad at men when you aren't married and asking "where are all the good men". Those good men see you as a ref flag for obvious reasons. To be honest at least you know what your getting with a slut. Most women just lie about being sluts and that's what pisses men off because they trap you into marrying a hoe and everyone knows you can't turn a hoe into a housewife.

mikeysixpointsix · 2020-01-29T21:56:16+00:00

Honestly, I don’t think mgtow have the animosity towards “sluts” that you think they do. Personally I love sluts, fucked a few in my day. But we’re not gonna marry a slut or any woman for that matter. We have a problem with the hypocrisy. We’re expected to look past the fact that our girlfriend or wife may have run a train on her college football team but god forbid we watch porn or jack off in the shower ever few days. We have to increasingly praise women for their promiscuity (slut walks, Nikki Manage, Cardi B, Millie Cyrus, etc) but anytime a guy expresses his sexuality it’s creepy or perverted or sexual harassment. Women can buy a whole tool box of vibrators and dildos for Good Vibrations but if you own a flesh light you should be put on the sex offender list. A 200 pound bridge troll with three kids can have the highest standards when dating but you can’t ask your girlfriend to shave her pits more often cause that makes you a misogynist. You can’t even talk to a woman without her thinking your trying to get into her pants. On top of all that, I’ve had friends that were single dads with female children that were always being accused of being a child molester just for taking theirs kids to the park or public pool, or shopping, whatever. But female teachers are constantly getting off the hook for statutory rape.I wouldn’t be surprised if feminists start demanding all men wear chastity belts next. Unless your gay, then the sky is the limit. Wanna dance in the street with nothing but chaps on? Yass Queen! Women slut shame each other way more than men do. You need an example go watch twitch for a while. Shit, I’ve even heard women praising sex workers but then condemn the guys who buy their services. Like, don’t you know you can’t have one without the other? It’s way too hypocritical nowadays.

WrongTime01 · 2020-01-29T22:06:01+00:00

Having sex in itself isn’t the problem.

The problem is the std’s, cheating, entitlement via non-stop enabling by losers, exploiting people for money and services (expensive gifts and dinner), lying to make ex-partners look bad, marrying for the sole purpose of divorcing, and blaming everyone else when people get tired of their shit

American__Jedi · 2020-01-29T22:37:09+00:00

" It’s not like it hurts anyone "

You spread disease. Including AIDS which not just hurts it kills

Bob_Bobbingtonn · 2020-01-29T22:50:05+00:00

She can do whatever she wants. But she can't be a slut then complain that no good men want to wed her... no one wants another man's hand me down, cum stained mattress.

bo43b · 2020-01-29T22:54:49+00:00

the less partners the less STDS

jamocadyn · 2020-01-29T23:01:42+00:00

Slut shaming no. We advise men to stay away from sluts because not only will the chance of contracting an STD be higher but because they will be drained of resources and time. Due to the dynamic of modern society...a lot of women aged 50 and younger have ridden the CC for years. Why should men marry women who have given the only truly precious thing they had to many, many men without the requirement of marriage or monogamy?

2020-01-29T23:44:49+00:00

A key that opens every lock is a master key.

A lock that is opened by any key, is a crapy lock.

Women are the gatekeepers of sex. I only happens, and almost always happens, when they yes.

Men are the gatekeepers of relationships. They only happen, and almost always happen, when they say yes.

Search around and you will understand... If you care to.

SilentGaze1 · 2020-01-30T00:42:18+00:00

If you start asking what's wrong with .. It's the same reason why bad people put in jail. Because it harms society. At least she can do whatever she wants, but she shouldn't come later and cry that nobody wants to marry her. Fellows told the rest.

Title	Why all the slut shaming?
Author	ruachnin-12
Upvotes	0
Comments	30
Date	January 29, 2020 9:23 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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