Just got out of a 4 and a half year relationship with a girl who I discovered was a gold digger. Took me a while to realize that her working part time while living in my house and driving my cars, while blowing the money she made on material goods including a cruise, was her using me.

On top of that, she showed me the true colors of a woman. She'd told me multiple times she wouldn't date me if I was short or had a small penis. I was talking to my female friend last week and she said she wishes there was a way to filter out small penised men and said she'd never date a short guy. The second woman is a proud feminist who is intelligent, beautiful, kind, passionate, wife material; and even she is this vain.

I've come to the realization that women are shallow, by nature. We want love and intimacy in a partner. The western woman wants resources and social status in a partner. They don't love you, they love what you provide for them, and I realized that my relationship was most likely this dynamic. While we have one thing we want in a woman - a woman we can connect to - women have a laundry list of things they want in men, that they feel they're entitled to.

I forever thought I was sexist for this, but I understand now that I am not. These women act this way, this is reality, this is not some altered perception of women skewed by my relationships. They've put this upon themselves. Your mother is the only woman who will love you unconditionally. You will lose the rest when you lose your job.

I look forward to my journey with you all.