14 is now considered a normal age for girls to start having sex

jkarovskaya · 2017-07-23T11:39:51+00:00

Hate to break your purity bubble, but young kids having sex has been going on SINCE FOREVER, quite literally.

Puberty happens, the body is signalling it's ready for sex, what else is new?

Sure social media , cams, etc have been contributing to sexualization of teens for last 20 years, but wtf, THIS IS NOT NEWS.

In in any major city in the world, you can find teen and even child prostitutes, and that hasn't ever changed.

The story is as old as human society, it's not abnormal for this to happen.

FYI, in the 1960 hippie culture, communes, concerts, it was a common as dirt for teens to have sex really young.

Pollyanna attitudes pretending this is new is naive as hell

ScatteredCastles · 2017-07-23T11:50:15+00:00

I note the mom doesn't say if she's still married to the father of the children. And she goes on to say she'll keep the news from the father because he's an "authority figure".

Gee, get dad out of the picture, resent his authority, then ask, "Where did I go wrong as a single mom?"

Onkel_Adolf · 2017-07-23T11:27:58+00:00

Internet and smartphones = access to porn plus music videos turn kids into whores, just turn on any music channel and you will see some negro almost banging white chick in almost every video. Disgusting.

EndlessPontification · 2017-07-23T16:47:04+00:00

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Startthecar27 · 2017-07-23T11:23:18+00:00

A friend's 12 yo had 2 girls offer to take his virginity.

HumanBeingOfEarth · 2017-07-23T13:02:00+00:00

Where are you from? I grew up in Southern California and let me tell you underage sex is the norm for Spanish girls. They literally have party's at 15 where they choose between an expensive gift or losing her virginity.

Westerly- · 2017-07-23T12:41:53+00:00

I was dating a 14 yr old when i was 17. She already selpt with a handful of guy's they where generally conservative with the truth, 15 years ago.

Its not new, Its just normal to be an admitted whore these days.

scotFree66 · 2017-07-23T13:42:47+00:00

I think the stats generally support the fact that kids in broken families look for affection outside the family and start sex earlier. Kids in secure families with both parents generally start later.

And I wonder if these mothers know to tell their daughters about bonding. It is important young girls know that their "you go girl - 'just having fun' - CC riding" in senior school could end up ruining their (and future husband and kids') lives since the 100 cock stare means they cannot form meaningful LTRs & marriages.

Funny how girls say "I decided to have sex at 15 & then did it"

-I am sure most boys will say "I decided to have sex at 13 ......... but it wasn't until I was 16 that I was able to"

tracerismywaifu · 2017-07-23T11:15:21+00:00

quoted from the post:

I have a daughter, Lucy (14F). I have three other children (18F, 17M, 7F). Lucy has a boyfriend (16M). I only found out that she had a boyfriend a few days ago. I heard her crying in her room and came to ask her what was wrong. At first, she refused to tell me, but after a few mins, she told me she was scared she's pregnant. I was really shocked because I didn't even know she had a boyfriend. And I was shocked that she was having sex at her age... I was really shocked. She told me she was dating her boyfriend for the past 2 years, and after a bit of questioning from my side, I found out they'd been sexually active for the past year, which means she started having sex at the age of 13!

I bought her a pregnancy test the next morning and luckilly, it was negative. She got her period that night, so no pregnancy.

I asked her tons of questions about her relationship, and I told her she was way too young for having sex, but then she started fighting with me and told me she's completely ready for sex because she loves her boyfriend, and that "having sex at her age is very normal, it's not 19th century anymore". I tried my best to discuss birth control with her, but she wouldn't listen and she said they were using condoms, but the condom broke, and said 'she knew all that stuff'.

So, my main concerm is - how could I have let this happen? Where did I fail as a mother? I had a great relationship with Lucy and she knew she could tell me everything. I don't yell at my children and I try to calmly communicate with them. With my older daughter, she told me all about her first kiss and stuff (she was 15) and she lost her virginity at 17 - still young, but within a range of normal. I lost mine when I was 17 too. My son also told me about his first gf (though he was rather shy about it, but he still told me) when he was 16, and he's still with her btw. Not sure if he is sexually active, but I guess he is.

I can't talk to their father about this. He doesn't allow the children to have SOs before the age of 16. He is a strict father. He doesn't yell or beat the kids of course, but he is a real authority figure to them. I know that if I tell him about Lucy, she's going to get grounded for a long time and I fear that it might only make the things worse. He's also probably going to find Lucy's boyfriend and scare him, which will make Lucy resent him... and she is a bit rebellious kid, so it could cause a lot of trouble.

I don't know where I failed. What have I done bad? She could have easily ended up pregnant. I feel so bad now. Is grounding her for this even an option? I mean, what's done is done, right? Is there anything I could say to her which could make her stop being sexually active for at least another two years, or is it too late now? How do I not make the same mistake with my youngest daughter? I am in a chaos now.

Btw Lucy is otherwise a good kid - she has good grades, plays sports, is nice to everyone in her school, etc.

Tl;dr - My 14yo daughter has a 2-year-long relationship and has been sexually active for the past year. Where did I fail as a mother? This is not normal.

christianlazard · 2017-07-23T11:52:14+00:00

The age when they start having sex will fall to below 10 within 20 years.

thrown1520 · 2017-07-23T13:23:08+00:00

"how could I have let this happen? Where did I fail as a mother?"

Let's start with the feminism. Then let's branch off to letting her go to government schools.

EndlessPontification · 2017-07-23T14:25:16+00:00

Historically, it is very normal.

NoThirst · 2017-07-23T16:35:46+00:00

...thank god I didn't have daughters.

Helikzhan · 2017-07-23T18:16:54+00:00

14 has been historically and biologically an appropriate age for sexual relations. Going back as far as antiquity. It was kept under control through courtship though between child and adult with the latter being responsible for the safety and well being of the child.

Of course today we call that pedophilia while young girls get knocked up by young boys and live off old man tax money for the rest of their lives.

It's a difficult argument for people to accept being wrong about but clearly the proof of this wrong-headed thinking is in our civ pudding.

2017-07-23T18:23:23+00:00

When i was 6 years old. My girlfriend (friend) at the time invited a bunch of classmates and me to her birthday party. Everything was innocent.

Until i was the only one inside the room with her. I kid you not. The girl is 8 years old at the time. Buck naked. Mother comes into the room and i have no clue what just happened. Couldn't even explain myself if a gun was pointed at me.

Moral of the story. Kids have been sexually active way before 14 years old. You just don't know about it.

With our over sexualized society. Don't be surprised if girls at a young age start having sex. It's in video clips, movies, cartoons, video games, music, media, social media. Everywhere!

Your little brother or sister is being bombarded with sexual imagery. Subliminally or direct.

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kyledontcare · 2017-07-23T12:23:58+00:00

The female writing implies that she isn't married to the father. Throw out the leader and see what happens. I wonder whose fault it is that they aren't married any longer?

2017-07-23T18:57:57+00:00

I graduated high school in 1994. Back then, a lot of women didn't have a serious boyfriend they fucked until they got to college. It seems now they wait until high school. Maybe it was just virtue signaling or kids talking trash, but the girls that were dating and screwing at 14 were considered slutty back then.

2017-07-23T19:50:33+00:00

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Who cares? That was always the normal age for sex. Teens constantly fucking each other is why sex education is important, and the states without sex education always have the highest teen pregnancy rates.

Onkel_Adolf · 2017-07-23T19:18:24+00:00

I started when I was 13 and she was 12, we knew what we wanted, if not what we were doing.

lonewolf-chicago · 2017-07-23T19:37:28+00:00

I don't understand why no man has taken one of these cases to the Supreme Court

2017-07-24T02:04:46+00:00

Back in my blue pilled days, I made an online friend, who was a girl a 4 hour drive away from me. We swore to each other that we would "get together in university".

I was 15 at the time. 2 years later, baby pics started showing up in her feed. Apparently she was pregnant and was a 17 YEAR OLD SINGLE MUM. She also ghosted me and never talked to me again, out of the blue.

Now looking back on it, I cringe how BP I was but I think that was really the spark of my transition. I went full-on MGTOW at 19.

dildo_bagmans · 2017-07-23T14:24:57+00:00

Context is everything.

In the recent past average life expectancy was much shorter than today, and by 25-30 many were grandparents.

Title	14 is now considered a normal age for girls to start having sex
Author	tracerismywaifu
Upvotes	58
Comments	107
Date	July 23, 2017 11:15 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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