How to get over being betrayed in the past

p3p3_sylvia · 2020-01-07T03:03:04+00:00

You can always embrace the fact that you actually learned your lesson and no longer allow yourself to be betrayed. Think about all the million other errors you’ve made in life just for being a human. Don’t hold one error to a higher standard when you’ve already learned your lesson.

flibbidy_floob · 2020-01-07T03:37:57+00:00

Females are naturally-skilled at camouflaging their true motives. It's understandable that guys like us, acting in good faith, would get fooled by such experts. Don't feel bad about it. Feel good that you observed their true nature, and can now make smarter decisions going forward.

MGTOWmb · 2020-01-07T14:02:55+00:00

You don't "get over" it. Allow me to make an analogy:

Imagine when you were younger, you touched a hot stove. The hot stove burned your hand. Now fast forward a dozen or so years and imagine yourself posting on the internet "I got burned by a hot stove when I was younger, how do I get over that bad experience so I can start touching hot stoves again?" Pretty dumb, right?

Basically, what I'm getting at is stay away from hot stoves.

P.S. "Hot stoves" means women, in case I was being too subtle.

hugaddiction · 2020-01-07T03:31:04+00:00

let alone most women

ALL women are like that.

NathanHollister · 2020-01-07T03:30:01+00:00

Take steps to keep yourself safe in the future

scocasso · 2020-01-07T06:13:36+00:00

Well, I thought the first time it happened to me, that it was just her, and that there was a better one out there. Then it happened again. Okay, that's shit luck. Try try try again, every woman was the fuck'n same in the end -- only thinking of themselves. Just remember that. It's not just her. And it wasn't just that one experience you had. Forget her, and move on.

2020-01-07T15:14:56+00:00

Betrayal is a fucking curse, can take a chunk of your fucking soul. Can't say this enough.
However, Learn to never trust anybody, not friends, not females. If you expect betrayal, nothing can hurt you.

guesswho303 · 2020-01-07T04:48:14+00:00

Be thankful you got to truly know them and to see what it really was before you invested more or most of your life with said people. As bad as it was look at it as a blessing. You wont be fooled again will you?

Yashugan00 · 2020-01-07T09:36:13+00:00

you don't "get over" it. you're trying to avoid your lived experience. instead you accept that you learned a lesson, you integrate it and move forward with the added value.

crityouallday · 2020-01-07T08:57:27+00:00

It's preety normal to have scars. From work and pets I have tons on my fingers/hands. The scars on your heart are also just a stark reminder of who you were and who you are now. Let's not talk about the scars that are present from being involved in a war, that shit runs deep down to the soul even. Just be glad you got out ok and think of others who have it worst.

Title	How to get over being betrayed in the past
Author	mae1995111
Upvotes	19
Comments	11
Date	January 7, 2020 3:00 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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