edit* I don't see 'State' being thrown around here a lot, but I use it in the RSD sense. How 'In the zone' you are. Ie. Good energy, fun, fucking around, out of your head, good times, approaching everything, unstoppable, confident etc. Pretty much think of the best fucking night of your life, the state your mentality is in when that's happening.

Introduction

I'm a 25 y.o guy, who happens to do strip shows every now and then. (Think Magic Mike). This is a field report from our last show, and we'll be discussing AWALT, Attraction, State, and how the whole night plays into womens fantasies.

Body

The girls get to the venue around 6pm where they start drinking casually. At the start of the night the girls are pretty shy usually, sipping their drinks, and making small talk with 4-6 guys who are topless waiters. The girls are a huge variety and mix, some are in their low 20s just there for a good time, a majority are there for a hens night and are actually quite shy, normal girls who you wouldn't think would be the typical 'skanky girl' who would go to a strip show. Then there are a few mums of the bride, etc and a few oldies along for the ride.

At 7 the actual stripping starts, guys come out and do a routine and by this time the girls are a bit tipsy and the atmosphere really livens up. After this its pretty much constant dancing, solos, routines, girls coming up on stage for dances etc until the end of the night at 9, where everyone is drunk and we head to a club after party with all the girls. During the show the strippers will ask girls if they want a 'private show' downstairs, and this is where the girls usually end up blowing the strippers or fucking them. Mostly the girls have boyfriends or are single and the brides don't end up doing this as much, as they can't because they are surrounded by all their friends and won't be able to get away with it yet. (yet). **Never forget the requirements for a girl to fuck you, it has to be NON JUDGMENTAL and there has to be attraction, she has to be able to claim plausible deniability.

I could give you a hundred stories about fucked up shit at the strip shows, but its pretty common AWALT stuff.

When we go to the club afterwards with the 100+ girls is where interesting RP dynamics come into it.

When we get to the club our status is obvious through the roof, we come in with 100+ girls and they are ALL dancing around us, grinding on us, trying to get our attention. We're usually in the middle of circles of girls dancing and fucking around with each of them for a bit, they're buying us drinks, talking to us, everything. It's hilarious seeing regular dudes look at us whilst this goes on, just seeing the disbelief in their faces. During this time, even RANDOM girls who weren't at the show will come up and do the exact same thing as the girls who knew us from the show, simply because of our STATUS. Now, you're probably thinking, kez88 you idiot you're a stripper its because you're hot etc. Part of that is right, but the biggest distinction to make is that I've been out clubbing just with mates, and I do get attention, but its not common, and I have to MAKE it happen, get MYSELF into state, and create my own social value before any attention from girls really happens. If i just walk in and sit at the bar drinking like random betas then nothing happens for me in the night.

Back to the story.

This continues, we start hooking up with girls, married or not (usually one of the brides hook up with us), 1 or 2 of the guys takes some girls to the back alley to fuck. I keep dancing, drinking, shooting the shit. However, by about 11 or 12 at night the girls from the show start leaving, and more and more randoms and guys come into the club. At this point, your social value starts to diminish, and theres way less attention and girls on you. Still a few here and there, and walking around girls still notice you, but you're not infamous how we were a few hours ago, where it was literally like you're a celebrity and unstoppable.

Conclusion

So, ranting story aside, take away lessons are:

It's your STATUS and how in STATE you are, and the energy, vibe, and fun times you're giving off that are important. There were 6 of us guys, 2 really aren't that attractive, probably a 6 or a 7 on a good day, but being 'the stripper' and someone the girls view as 'just for fun' and alpha and having the attention of everyone there, will give you immense power and attention.

AWALT. Never trust your girl if shes going to a strip show. Period.

You can and SHOULD build your own social proof, state, and status as soon as you get into any club. Start doing dumb stupid funny dancing shit on the middle of the dance floor with your boys, dance with EVERYONE, be having fun, be a fucking idiot, and people will start to know you and girls will come. No girl wants to be dancing off in the corner with some random dude or two who no one else is noticing.

That's really all I got for now, might make a bit more in depth post about the dynamics of the nights later on, as they really are quite interesting.