I usually stay at BnB's or family hotels when I travel for work.

Here in the UK its quite common to stay at lodges/BnB's when you go from one part of the country to another.

Well, the last place I stayed, I was attended by an attractive woman in her 40's.

She was well kept and had a good attitude.

Well, on my last day there, she opens up a bottle of wine, and we start having an interesting chat about family, divorced parents and the like. She asks me to show her pictures of when I visited Cancun, so I approach her and she does that typical "touch your hands while I grab something" technique that a lot of women do when they are attracted to a man.

So, I catch the vibe and the chemistry in the room lights up.

We keep on talking, I get really close to her, but Im thinking if my next appointment.

I have to go in order to make it to my next job site and I bid her farewell, not before giving her a good kiss on each cheek and nearly busting my load right there and then: there was so much chemistry at the time.

Let me emphasize this: AT THE TIME.

The next day, she texts me saying that I forgot an invoice I left in my room. I took the liberty of asking a client for an invoice, sent to my current residence, so I planned ahead and had it sent to the lodge.

I say to her: "Let me go back and get it myself, that way, I can see you again". She replies: "Its fine, I will send it to you by mail". Im a little struck by her comment.

So I inisist, she doesnt text back. I text her again "Is this Monday good for you?"

She replies "Im busy this Monday, next Wednesday is better". She texts me on Tuesday: "I cant do Wednesday, let me send the letter to you".

So me being the no BS, straight shooter that I am, I text her (paraphrasing): "So, what happened the other day? You were flirtatious, we got along very well, and there was definitely chemistry between us. If you dont want me to see you again, just say so. Im fine with that, just be honest about it".

Well FK ME.

She went absolutely APE SHIT. She texted me saying " HOW DARE YOU! I have a partner! I never gave you so much as a blink and you think I was attracted to you??? Never, ever contact me again. I treated you well and you respond like this?? Stay away from me and my partner!"

So there you go fellas. If you read this and are a newbie, or you have a certain woman who you THINK is cool, just dont.

Women are loveless. They would much rather intellectually orgasm, out of sheer pride and vanity, from saying NO, than to have an attractive man give them a good hug.

And no, I aint ugly. But I just give up.

Women are out to play games and give men headaches. When times get tough, and they will, Im gonna be happy seeing these stupid women out on the curb, wanting food for head jobs.

Im never flirting or approaching a women, ever again.