Need some support.

Ilikeoldergals · 2019-09-26T04:27:12+00:00

Find a macdonalds for wifi, toilets and cheap food so you can study.
Save a bit of money and get a gym membership so you can exercise and use the shower. If a public pool is cheaper and has shower facilities use that.

3.Keep your car maintained for now until you can move into somewhere affordable

Drop a subject to make time for work to generate some income.

You are going to struggle and now its on you to fix it. Believe in yourself friend! You can do this!

MYTKHAN · 2019-09-26T05:16:47+00:00

First objective has to be finding a roof to live. Winter is coming. You should drop at least one subject at this point and find a job. All Starbucks' have open restrooms and free wifi.

Stay away from any kind of drugs or alcohol at this point. It might be tempting, but it'll kick your psychology and wallet's ass so bad that you fall in a much deeper pit.

Find easy achievable points to keep going in day. It'll help you maintain your mood AND sanity.

Find an ally. No war can be won all alone. Call or meet someone. Not for money or anything, for someone to talk. Pray, if nothing. This is a war of mind, you gotta stay calm.

Winter is coming. Get warm clothes and don't be afraid to paying more for good winter boots and coat. It worth it.

Plan. Schedule your near future with projections, like tomorrow, 1 week, 2 weeks, a month, 3 months and 6 months projections has to be mildly planned.

At lastly, NEVER, EVER, EVER call her, text her, go anywhere near her. It'll kick in at a low moment of yours. Do not even fight with it. Dismiss it.

Been there my friend. Stay strong. It'll get better. Keep us notified.

betterforitall · 2019-09-26T04:30:46+00:00

I wish I had more time to offer you encouragement. It sounds like you're getting close to finishing up a hard-earned goal. All I can say is hang in there, I hope some of the other guys give you some good words.

Try to get the girl off your mind though. That's the first order of business. In a few years your life is going to be so much better than it is now.

2019-09-26T05:45:51+00:00

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retri-iwnl · 2019-09-26T06:45:12+00:00

It's always darkest before dawn baby!

Hang tough brother!

Sirmoah · 2019-09-26T09:59:12+00:00

Nut bro nut.

MrMagtow · 2019-09-26T16:37:07+00:00

Go and talk to student aid ASAP. Also, talk to your school about housing, or talk to the local churches/salvation army about how to improve your situation.

Maybe the church knows an old couple whose son moved out many years ago and wouldn't mind having you there for a year or two. You'll never know if you don't ask.

Most people are kind and would prefer having someone around, even if it's just to have conversation about current topics over the dinner table.

Asking for help is necessary in your situation. When you win, you can repay them 10-fold, and maybe one day when you're old, there will be a student, just like you in need...

Title	Need some support.
Author	bananabread951
Upvotes	11
Comments	8
Date	September 26, 2019 4:03 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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