Law 11: Learn to Keep People Dependent on You

To maintain your independence you must always be needed and wanted. The more you are relied on, the more freedom you have. Make people depend on you for their happiness and prosperity and you have nothing to fear. Never teach them enough so that they can do without you.

Breakups suck, but they reveal something about yourself: you never needed that woman in your life after all. Life moves on. The stronger you are emotionally, the better off you are and the faster you recover. Think about it this way: do you rely on your woman's income for your livelihood? Do you rely on their rent check to keep a roof above your head? Are you married? If you answered no to all three of these questions, you don't really need this woman. She is expendable.

You on the other hand, are not. You are a bastion of fun, fantasy, and fanaticism. You are someone who if she wants to go out, she relies on you to have a good time. Someone who is the foundation of her positive emotions. What you bring to the table is so valuable, she couldn't imagine life before you. All of us Red Pillers aren't perfect and are still on a journey of self development and realizing our full potential, but that doesn't stop us from bringing to the table the set of skills necessary in the art of seduction, which is to be relied upon.

One of the most famous Red Pill case studies of an expendable woman/non-expendable man was the case of the inheritance rich man who got dumped by a woman because she didn't know he was worth a fortune. When she dumped him, the man simply escorted her to the door of his apartment and shut it on her. Later on they were at a Christmas party, and while she was still pining over him after discovering his fortune as well as the fact that he was so stoic in the breakup, he had already moved on and found a new girlfriend.

Fact: around 50% of the population is female. Meaning that for every penis in existence, there is also a pussy. Yet we live in this bizarre world where dick is abundant and the cheapest commodity out there, and vagina is relatively scarce. One of the tools in the woman's seduction arsenal is sex. Understand that women use sex, both consciously and unconsciously, in order to further their objective within the relationship.

I have a rough background of clinginess and thirst. I realized this came from the fact that I relied on one single woman for sex. I didn't understand that half of the entire population is pussy and there is no shortage of it. We only think there is because we are taught to perceive it this way. The reality: enough of the population is female to get new pussy, women love sex, and women love sex more than you do.

Women love sex. If you do it right and are dominant. They moan, they scream, and they have multiple orgasms. Keep her reliant on your dick for her sexual satisfaction. Don't let yourself slip and become reliant on her to get off with your orgasm.

I maintain a strict rule that Friday and Saturday nights are reserved for me and my bros. I never schedule dates on these nights. In order to maintain my independence, I must have a solid foundation in social skills as well as a community to utilize. It is when we spend the best parts of the week with our SOs that things become precarious.

The ability to walk away is seductive in and of itself. It shows both that you have value, and that you understand you have value. I remember I was in Greece when I approached these two gorgeous women. We started chatting, and then we walked to a nearby bar. But when they got there, they would only speak in Greek. I excused myself, stating that I had to go, and they literally begged me to stay. They apologized and said they would speak in English from now on. Such is the power of the ability to walk away as well as the ability of being relied upon.

Conclusion: women come and go. It is in their nature. You should be both self-reliant, as well as lean on your communities for love and support. It is the woman's duty to discover reliance on you. This is the ultimate path towards seduction, power, and independence.