WARNING: Medium-lengh post, I don't want to leave any important details out.
About me: 22 yo male, lifting consistently 8 months untill quarantine came along, 6.1 tall, training kick boxing: 2 years, recently graduated on an IT field related carrer, lurking and applying TRP for 12 months.
Got a degree a month ago after finishing my thesis (IT, overall average grade 9,22), and an opportunity to move out of my country came up (Argentina), my mom is currentry living in France, she ask me if I would consider moving this year, even asked yesterday if the borders where open in Argentina, has been stated that it would not be a vacation and probably is going be a semi-permanent decision with a one way ticket.
The decision making:
Cons: leaving behind one person really important to me: my father (I know that I have to make my own way, but still a con), I don't speak/understand French in an acceptable level so i'm afraid to end up having to use my body to work instead of my mind (not selling my ass, you know what I mean), really don't know if the decision of moving can be delayed or posponed, for that matther I would like to have this figured out, the city I would be living is Pau which has an estimated population of 80.000 (2015), always wanted to visit Europe but since i'm not wealthy enough yet to do a vacation or something like dat, my best judgement could be clouded by that desire and easily make a mistake.
Pros: Moving out from a 3rd world country to a better and more stable economy which I think can lead to a big personal growth, also have a place to live (with my mom) until I can start been independent again, the town I would be moving is located 50 miles from the Spain border (that is strategically positive because that language is one I dominate perfectly due to where I was born), I'm still young so if it ends up being a terrible decision I could recover from it and learn.
The thought of the experiences and opportunities that can be waiting for me, makes me think that if I choose to stay I could be missing a one time chance that not many in this economy and country can even consider, but in the other hand there are a lot of factors that need to be taken into consideration.
Coming to you guys because you can offer a unique perspective and gives the posibility to see some important points I might be missing, so thank you in advance and ask any questions you like ofc, apologies for my not so good English level.
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