Often times, when I want to approach I get in my head a lot and start questioning whether it's ok to approach in a particular setting, venue, etc. I start to feel a bit self conscious and worry about coming across as weird to the girl. I know the right frame should be that "I am the prize and this girl is lucky to be talking to me right now" but I've struggled with setting and believing this frame. How can I adopt this frame better and truly believe it when I keep second guessing myself and worrying if I'm coming across as weird. Do I just keep approaching more and more girls till I stop giving a fuck? I've been watching Californication and it's crazy how casually Hank Moody talks to hot girls - he makes a casual remarks and acts like he has no interest in them and gets them to chase. How do I desensitize myself to attractive girls and set that kind of frame when approaching?