I have only been redpilled since September 2019, but before that I was still watching PUA type videos, so I hade a medium base. I knew that humor and teasing would at least get me somewhere with girls.

Now, I was wondering: I usually can make people laugh (and girls) very often cuz it's not that hard for me, but at the same time people call me unreactive and chilly (not completely cold).

Should I just ditch on of the two or stay the way I am? I feel like the two might seem conflicting for an outsider.