It was her first message to me. Her profile says she's looking for something casual. I'm curious;

  1. Should I treat it like she was just looking for a way to break the ice and respond normally to her

  2. be a challenge/make her qualify herself to me. Ex: "only if you don't suck"

  3. or try to ramp up the sexuality?

I've dealt with girls like this before but it never seems to go anywhere. Not sure if they're just looking for validation, also I wonder if pushing too hard for sex will just reek of scarcity mentality and give the girl a "ehhhh... He was too easy/eager to just jump into bed with me, probably wants it way more than me, no thanks" mindset. Anyway any advice from trp would be greatly appreciated!