Hey everyone, so I've got a question for you all

It's been a long journey for me, and still, I am on my way to become a better version

I managed to hit my most important goals those past 3 years:

- got laid

- managed to land a high paying job

- hit my goal weight + bf %

and much more stuff that I checked off my checklist but...

lately, I was talking to a friend at a party that I respect and he said to me something that if translated to English goes along the lines of that I am always focusing only on the end goal and not really enjoying the moment and letting loose, which when I look back it's kinda true.

I never got a tattoo or went for a 3 month trip around the world or any of the stuff that I hear people do when they share their stories I always pushed everything to the sidelines just to get further in my career goals and just going for the bare minimum of social events to at least get laid once in a while and meet my friends that I haven't seen in a while.

all I've been doing those last couple of years is grinding.

I do go out and such but I always feel like I'm kinda half in my head already focusing on tomorrow and my next goal. so much that I don't even feel like I'm fully enjoying the moment.

What's the best way to deal with that, I am finally done with my degree and landed a good work and I just now noticed that probably from now on I will basically work 9-5 most of my life until I drop dead.

by the looks of it, I will probably be one of those dudes that will wait each day till Saturday

any advice on how to deal with that? or a new perspective to look at life?

I really wish I could be the carefree guy who lives day to day and spends money on shit instead of saving, enjoying life fully even if I won't have that much money. but I feel like I just can't... it's stupid and I know it...

why get a tattoo when you can invest, why get a puppy if its gonna set you back, why even do anything fun like smoke weed or get wasted.

everything seems like a setback, fuck this career bullshit. I am probably looking at it all wrong...

any advice would be appreciated