Let's say you finally achieved one of your long term goals. You got the body you always wanted. You got that promotion at your job. Eventually got a rim job from that hot blonde you've been buying shit for the last couple weeks. How are you feeling now? Decided to celebrate with your good buddies, who probably aren't even happy for you, but decided that a couple free beers are a good idea for a Friday night.

   Friday night ends."Now what?" you may ask yourself. Back to the grind looks like the only available option that doesn't end up in you eventually becoming a fucking failure again. "Have I spent my last two years just for a couple hours of joy?" No, you dumb fuck. You did it for the man you have become. You did it for the fulfillment you felt at the end of every long, hard day of grinding. But ultimately, you did it because you had no other options. Either you grow, or you decline. Working and improving your skills are not only allowing you to score an A on that stupid exam, but are training your discipline. Cold approaching women you want to fuck doesn't only allow you to eventually end up fucking the women you want to fuck, but makes your brain your own bitch by showing it how many of its fears are illusions, and eventually your confidence sky-rockets.     Why am I telling you all this random bullshit and why should you keep reading? Let's say you got everything you've ever wanted after years of working hard. All the hot girls. The cool house. The fast cars. Everything. Now what? Let's suppose you stop. Stop going to the gym, stop trying to make more cash. Stop trying to get other women. Stop trying to meet new people. Do you think you'd be happy afterwards? Exactly. As a man, you need a mission. You accomplish it. Do you stop? Fuck no. You go out into the world and explore more, and get as much as possible from this thing we call "life". My point is, the grinding and the struggle never ends, and if it did, you'd be way more miserable than you are now, trying to make yourself a better man. So choose your struggle carefully. Put yourself and your own evolution first, above anything else, especially materialistic things.      Remember getting that toy you really wanted as a kid, but you ended up getting bored of it after a couple days? Same thing happens when your older, but instead of legos, it's Lambo's. My father grew up in a poor family. And by poor, I mean the total income of my grandpa and grandma was about 750$ a month, and in my country the minimum wage was about 300$. He got his first pair of jeans at 19years old, for example. After about 20 years of struggle and hard work, he is now worth a little over 2 mill $. He's top 0.1% here. Now, all of his income is coming from various appartments or halls he's rented. Basically he is set for life, and this all happend until he was about 40yo. You could say he "Made it". Guess what? He's not fucking happy. All he does now is travel, wake up whenever the fuck he wants, goes to football games, plays tennis etc. Basically the life 99% of the people would only dare to dream about. He got everything he ever wanted growing up. House with an indoor pool, tennis court at home, cars worth over 100k, you name it. He is 100% healthy, yet he feels like there is nothing else to achieve. The second the struggle stopped, he changed. He's sad as fuck now. He's bored. He no longer has a mission.     So, are you saying were doomed for life? Is there an eternal suffering we're obliged to encounter during our lifetime? Definetly not, you little nihilistic prick. What I want you to understand is that all you need in order to live a meaningful life as a male, is to be able to improve yourself. The second you stop doing it, that's when you're fucked. Can you go to the gym? Be greatful for it. Can you learn new shit? Be greatful for it. Can you improve your social skills? Be greatful for it. Greatfulness is the key to a happy life. Striving for a better you is the key to a meaningful life. Not hot girls, and definetly not money. So stop being a fucking faggot, and the next time you have to hit the gym, don't complain like an ungreatful fuck about how hard that is. At least you got a body to train. When you go to a club and have approach anxiety, stop being a fucking faggot, and don't complain about how much rejection hurts. Other motherfuckers live in some stupid village with a 5k population, and you're complaining? If you're already trying your best to improve, you've won. That's it. Live the present moment and enjoy all the ups and downs, because they are part of your growth. You are doomed to get stronger.     Understand that the struggle is a neccesity if you want to be happy, but "making it" isn't. Make sure you choose the struggle you desire. Not your mom's, not your friends'. Then pursue it as is your life deppends on it. Why? Because it does.