Haven’t cold approached in a while, but today I went for a walk by some water near my job and there was this girl with some other guy was I think was gay.

I sat on the bench next to them and was sipping my beer, I kept taking slick looks at them, they would look at me for time to time, I think I saw some an IOI or two, but I sat there and literally let my thoughts run. I could sense the innate fear my in my heart, and my brain was coming up with all kinds of excuses not to approach.

In the end, I didn’t try, I didn’t get the number and i will never see this girl again.

I am not sad or anything like that , but i definitely am disappointed in myself. Cause I know that hesitation is a killer, regret is worse than rejection and faint heart never fucks fair lady, but i still didn’t make a move. Smh.

Anyone have any quick approach anxiety tips for when you’re actually in the field.