Here's the thing about r/femaledatingstrategy. Their whole purpose is for "leveling up". They want women to improve their lives and relationships. However, their version of leveling up is the exact opposite of the strategies of r/nofap, r/mgtow, and r/theredpill. These male subreddits are devoted to men improving themselves. Working out, getting a better wardrobe, stopping watching porn, getting a good job, taking care of yourself. That is how you make yourself more attractive and how you "level up". However, FDS's version of "leveling up" is simply doing the exact same things as before, and simply expecting more from men. FDS is about taking everything and giving nothing. I have never seen an FDS post about what the woman can offer in a relationship. They are all about men, complaining about any imperfection in a man, and how they all deserve a perfect 6 foot, 100k+ making HVM that will shower them with money, love, and affection, take care of their kids (who probably all have different dads), pay all the bills, and do whatever the woman wants without reply. I ask the women of FDS, what do you bring to the table? What makes you high value? Because the frank answer is, the women of FDS are low value women that convince themselves that they don't need to do anything to deserve a high value man. They can sit around, take instagram pictures, and make TikTok's while the man gives them everything they could have ever wanted in life.