Having No Friends

GoodMan_Gone · 2020-05-27T10:01:47+00:00

OP, whatever runs your ball is OK. It's your path to walk and it's nobody's business how much/ little friends you have. Nor what role those friends have. As long as you're fine nothing else matters.

SwordMasterLink79 · 2020-05-27T10:16:04+00:00

Personally I have found that there are no friends you can confide all your secrets in. It makes you incredible vulnerable to their whim.

I trust a lot of my secrets to my brother. He's family. He will have to stick around with me, somewhat for all his life, 'cause he's family. But still, I don't tell him my most kept secrets.

If you have a friend who has hundreds of friends, that's good, you can use him to make acquaintance with his friends. After all, he uses you for free beer, so why not use him for getting new friends? - you know you aren't his "best friend", so you can cut contact any time later, when it's convenient, when you got what you wanted from him. Do have some agency, push your own interests carefully.

Humans are social beings. From years without friends I have learned, that one actually does need a friend or two. It makes life much better.

Of course you don't need friends that demand a lot of you. But having someone to talk to about this and that once in awhile improves quality of life immensely.

Just my 2Cents..

DannyTTT55 · 2020-05-27T10:34:38+00:00

You will be lucky to have 1 or 2 people you could call your true friends in your life

As for just guys to have company with, just join a social club and have fun

2020-05-27T11:03:09+00:00

I'm much the same way, but if you're happy in your own company, that's all that matters. I wouldn't get caught up in what people claim to be normal. Be yourself, and revel in it.

KUL-DANK · 2020-05-27T18:21:26+00:00

i personally see most "normal" people as trash

why? everywhere i go, i see their little social "tests"

they will try to test you, but i personally dont like playing their stupid little games,

so they think im arrogant, but no, im not arrogant, im just not interested in their childish behaviour

I dont test anybody, i talk wo everybody with respect and i dont try to dominate anybody, unless they start to disrespect me

The people i like to talk to, are usually "weak" people, or outcasts, because they dont play those stupid social games, they dont try to dominate me and thats why i like them

but the problem with outcasts and weak people is that they have many personal problems and they have the capability to turn in those "normal" people, who play their stupid little social games

AndyTravelGuy314 · 2020-05-27T09:39:38+00:00

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KUL-DANK · 2020-05-27T18:15:19+00:00

one loyal friend is a million times better than 100 "friends"

Borgmeister · 2020-05-27T21:19:49+00:00

What you describe as a friend is how I define it. The others? Cordial acquaintances. Just make it clear they will remain in the Oort Cloud of your life.

Title	Having No Friends
Author	AndyTravelGuy314
Upvotes	19
Comments	8
Date	May 27, 2020 9:39 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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