Any desire of anyone is a leverage that is used against them. I don't want to have this desire.

Imagine there is this alien species out there who want to stick their thing in your hole. There are 4 billions of them. All of them want to stick their thing in your holes so much that they ALL get stupid when they see you sometimes. Especially if you act like innocent, helpless, loving... basically like an alien mom like freud said.

By using their stupidity, you can benefit yourself but they also want to keep sticking their thing in your hole and that can get demanding. But overall they are fundamentally retarded. Their neediness in you makes them do stupid shit including reading reddit posts written by 16 year old kids to learn how to be an alpha man. If these aliens were smart, they'd stay the fuck away from you because what they get from you is nothing but a deception and some monkey brain release that's self-destructive. These aliens are like male spiders who are so horny to fuck a female spider that the female spider baits the male with her special hole so that she can literally eat him.

I want to be asexual and spend my life on things that are more interesting and valuable. How can I do that?