Men think with their dicks

134 points22 commentssubmitted by lilith1993 to r/GenderCritical

This isn't a particularly new or shocking train of thought, I know, but in these past few weeks it's a theory that's been reinforced to me. From the woman posting in relationship advice about her husband lacing her food with feces to secretly fulfil his scat fetish to someone posting about the actress Pam Grier who was found to have cocaine in her cervix because her boyfriend prioritised a more intense orgasm over her health and later developed cervical cancer, it's truly disturbing to say the least.

These are extreme examples (and still hardly scarce) but to a much lesser extent, personally since dating men I've noticed how truly fickle and flimsy their morals and beliefs are depending on who they're trying to fuck. They really will say anything to manipulate you into bed, it's pathetic. Most recently I introduced a man I know to gender critical ideas, I gave him plenty of opportunity to disagree or put forward his own train of thought, but he fell over himself to agree with the main principles, even going as far as doing his own research. A few months later, I refuse a dinner date with him and stop replying to him so often since he clearly only ever saw me as a romantic conquest, tonight I happen to notice he's online positively interacting with 'fuck terfs' and pro TRA tweets. Not the first time this has happened right in front of my eyes, which is why I'm always cautious about men who are self proclaimed feminists, they're nearly always abusers or nonces. They can't be trusted. Men use the guise of allied feminism to take advantage of women's trust. I will never make space for men in feminist circles.