Hi ladies! I am so glad I've stumbled upon this subreddit and I am loving the guide and the posts! I admit that I have a history of dating LVM and I am learning... as evinced by this experienced a few days ago. Just posting a frustrated rant, really.

Long story short, I hooked up with a guy like a week ago. It's been a while for me so I was fairly keen when things were going that way.

Sex ended up lasting about 3 minutes and 30 seconds in, he's saying, and "I'm so close, hurry up and finish!". Needless to say that was a turn-off and incredibly frustrating.... I am so annoyed with myself for forgetting how simple a man's mind is.

Add salt to the wound, he's already blocked my number and isn't responding to me. Not that I'm complaining - I do not want a repeat of that.

He seemed like a fairly okay guy chatting and I thought he'd be more "generous" in the bedroom. But apparently I need tips on how to spot a shitty, selfish guy before getting into bed haha.