I usually get numbers (day/night) and do some online game and go for dates and try to have sex on the first date.

I realized I waste too many opportunities with girls who want to party. For example yesterday I met a girl in a bar, told my buddy I'm leaving and went outside with her. Good game inside of the bar, a lot of kino and good chances for a lay but not quite there attraction wisw. She wanted to party, though, and that was a dealbreaker so I just left since I needed sleep and honestly just wanted to fuck and couldn't get myself in the mood for the club.

So what you do in these situations? Just have better game before and somehow change her mind. Is it just an smv issue or can better game/frame change her mind from partying to "let's have a drink at my place". It's the point in the night where you go to the club after a couple of drinks in the bar. I'm talking about young girls here (18-25).

I really never do clubbing and have never fucked a girl this way. Would like to know if anyone has success with getting them to prefer a night with you over fun in the club still very early in the night (like 10-11 pm).