My ex got married recently. We dated when I was 21-23 and he was 32-34. Not sure what I was thinking at that age. He was a good guy and treated me well, but he was all over the place and held some double standards with women he couldn't deliver on.

He was unemployed for part of it, then got some low ass paying job. He had bipolar and used this as a constant excuse for being overweight, living at home, not shaving and just looking like a slob. I have a mental health condition and people always acknowledge how I take care of myself and look good. He always went for younger girls, even after we broke up.

Just found out the woman he married is two years older than him, he is 41 she is 43. Looks like none of the younger girls stuck around 😂

Also he looked like a complete MESS on his wedding day. Scraggly hair, unkempt beard, overweight... whereas his wife looked beautiful. So even though she's older he is still punching above his weight.