Hello, I currently have a male friend who is 20 years old and his ex girlfriend broke up with him, like most men he was cursed with man child syndrome and would constantly spend half his day away playing video games, they went on like 1 date every 2 month (and he thought this was acceptable), and the rest of the time they hung out at his house gaming and she eventually left him. She was a very beautiful woman, a 8/10 going into nursing, and he was like a 6 at the time, so he pissed away a very good relationship because of how shitty and lazy he is. Currently he has found r/redpill and he has been focusing on work alot more, working out, and even considers getting a second job to make some more money, as a programmer he has a very good career and he hasn't even been playing video games as much, he's really trying to improve.

Today a group of friends went to lunch and I asked him about that subreddit and he told me while he thinks alot of the stuff there is misogynist he wants to focus on the self improvement aspects. He's always been a very soft spoken and introverted guy and I was wondering, if we womwn with male friends and relatives if there are things we should teach them, can I incorporate femaledatingstrategy into teaching the men in my life to not be shitty, lazy, pieces of shit and to not ruin relationshps like my friend did his first girlfriend? I was wondering if the people here could list some things to teach the men in our lives, and how we can teach them to not fall into the pitfall of the misogynistic redpill movement while also helping them maximize their female relationships to benefit women.

While I don't plan to teach him about this subreddit I want to use the information to help make less shitty, lazy men out there and I plan to have children one day and wanted to know what things should i teach my sons in the long run.

P.S. I'm new here, however I've seen alot of screenshots from this place from a blog on tumblr so sorry if this question isn't supposed to be asked.