Hi guys. Using a throwaway account because I’m ashamed at how I’m still pinning over a guy whom (I think/thought) was HVM. Since discovering FDS almost 4 months ago now, I’ve changed a lot in terms of what I tolerate (thank god) when it comes to dating and find it easier getting over LVMs. I’ve pretty muched ditched my whole rotation of guys now bc I’ve got no time for that.

This happened before I discovered FDS and back when my emotions were all over the place - this guy and I texted for 3 weeks before meeting, and when we did it was magical. I felt something with him (and I don’t feel this way much, I’ve been on too many first dates) and he told me he did too. Now, it was only one date, but I felt like there was so much potential. 2 days later he tells me that he couldn’t date then because he was still dealing with healing from his prior breakup. He was honest and didn’t cock up some lame excuse which was unlike all the other guys I’d been out with. He told me before we met that whatever happenes he would be upfront and honest, and he was. Needless to say I was ‘broken’ for awhile. Infatuation? Probably.

I thought I was over him and I’m currently seeing someone else now (6 dates in and I still don’t know how I feel but that’s a whole other issue), but sometimes I still find myself thinking about him & wishing that he’d give us another shot now that it’s been a few months down the line. In a moment of weakness I texted him the other day (yes, I know, I should’ve deleted his number. And in fairness I’ve deleted all the other LVMs but couldn’t bring myself to delete him)... idk where this post is going sorry for the word vomit lol.

Just want some encouragement please :(