She was checking me out when I wasn't looking. So I went to her directly and spoke to her after the gym. We spoke about a lot of personal things (idk good or bad?) We spoke until the gym staff told us to leave as they were closing for the day. We sat outside and chatted until her cab arrived. I maintained my frame(which is still unsure). We exchanged numbers.

Then I texted her a few times. Her reply time was half day or so, even mine was matching hers. I kept it cool. But next time at the gym we sat together again and chatted a bit. I could sense my beta mind talking. It was a disaster. My confidence was shaking.

Third time, I didn't text her about going to gym(we used to) . We met up again. Then this time it was all cool. She was laughing at everything I said. She booked her cab but got cancelled a few times so we stayed together for a lot of time. Then left.

She went far for a vacation for a week. I last texted her before going asking when she's going.

All these times I had been starting text conversations. She never did. So I thought she's not that into me and haven't texted in 10 days. Haven't seen her in the gym either.

Idk what to do. Should I text or call? Directly ask for a date? I probably should have asked by now, should I have?

I have read the material on the side bar. But I lack experience, I hardly meet girls I am attracted to, I mean in my part of the town all girls are ugly. When I find girls I like I just fuck up I guess.

Tl:Dr; met a girl at gym, texted a few times(maintained ratio and reply timings though), but only I initiated texts so far, good conversations IRL, haven't texted in 10days, should I move on?