She said she wanted to stop fucking after 6 months or so and just be friends. I said ok. I had other plates, I just soft nexted her 'Let's try to talk as we are friends' phase and moved on.
I introduced my ex FWB and best friends, back then, in the beggining of our fwb relationship, 6 months ago, and we ended up making a small social circle with an other girl.
I hardly ever texted back my exfbw messages in the last month, just logistics and not much more. My friend was chatting with her everyday, sending a lot of texts, seems like was trying to flirt with her but at the same time in a 'joke way' since I was already fucking her. Obviously, my friend knew he was my FWB.
Somehow, she started giving him more attention than me. WHY THE FUCK? I didn't act needy, I had abundance. I fucking hit the gym, I am big and 14% bfat (could be lower but I am bulking). I am handsome and I fucking held frame all the time. He doesn't go to the gym, he is uglier, he is taller but I am 1.80cm which is already good, he doesn't have more money. He has more friends and more social circles than me, but I am an introvert and I don't need a lot of people in my life to be okay.
I don't fucking get it. Call it Oneitis or whatever, but I didn't give a fuck until I found out she replaced me with my friend which I consider to be below me. Is it my ego?
What could have happend?
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