If he turns the conversation suggestive, desexualize it.

DaddysCyborg · 2019-10-10T16:03:14+00:00

If she's shutting down the sexual vibe why did she ask if he was fapping?

Yourfacepink · 2019-10-10T15:34:12+00:00

Don’t think this conversation needed to be desexualised. You replied how random it was and he didn’t push further. I feel like the later comments are just uncalled for and it looks like you’re trying to hide being passive-aggressive behind a joke.

1Here4Bach · 2019-10-10T13:03:15+00:00

After he sent the first text he didn’t get the response he was looking for so he quickly pivoted to, “then I got arrested in target”. This is the oldest trick in the book.

He’s testing to see how much she’s willing to give him. It’s like a little kid seeing how close he can get to the cookie jar before his mom scolds him. She responded indifferently to the “nudes dream text” so he backed off.

Men will constantly push your boundaries (especially sexually) to see how much they can get out of you. If you have boundaries and put your foot down the first time, they won’t try that shit again.

Title	If he turns the conversation suggestive, desexualize it.
Author	rizzo1717
Upvotes	50
Comments	6
Date	October 9, 2019 11:07 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/dfp3ct/if_he_turns_the_conversation_suggestive/
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