How to politely decline?

saltypretzel9 · 2019-08-31T13:55:37+00:00

“Thank you for the compliment, I don’t think we are a match” “I don’t think we have the connection I’m looking for”

YesIAmRightWing · 2019-08-31T12:10:20+00:00

"No thanks"

AverageToHot · 2019-09-03T00:32:23+00:00

Just unmatch them. Stop caring so much about men’s feelings.

TheOGJammies · 2019-08-31T23:37:22+00:00

LOL worrying about hurting men’s feelings is your first mistake. Do you think any of these guys would feel a smidgen bad about ghosting you after sex? Just stop responding. If you haven’t met them in person you owe them nothing.

KazzyJJ · 2019-09-01T12:39:26+00:00

I’m exactly the same. They talk about meeting up, which after all is the whole point, but I know they’re not for me.

I have on occasion said that I’m in the process of meeting someone else I’m chatting to and want to see how that goes.

The usual answer back is ok good luck. Let me know if it doesn’t work out. Most are polite. They have to realise they’re not the only person we are chatting to.

Jorbus717 · 2019-09-01T08:43:45+00:00

“Nah, mate but thanks”

AverageToHot · 2019-09-02T04:34:05+00:00

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tha_oz · 2019-08-31T17:42:31+00:00

If its tinder or bumble why would you swipe right in the first place LOL

Shiny_Palace · 2019-08-31T15:28:08+00:00

What app do you use? Most of them let you choose if you like them before they can message you?

Title	How to politely decline?
Author	FruityTangs
Upvotes	19
Comments	17
Date	August 31, 2019 11:56 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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