This chick

TheStumblingWolf · 2018-11-27T14:46:18+00:00

Sometimes a person is just busy (especially if they're a student). Don't bother trying to interpret her actions. If you still have interest at a later time just hit her up and see if her interest is still there. If it's not, then move on. Work from what you know - and all you know for certain is what you want.

rpsheepdog · 2018-11-27T14:51:59+00:00

Doesn't look bad to me, keep being interesting and let her hamster do the work for you

ChadFromColumbus · 2018-11-27T15:12:31+00:00

Two options, same result:

One, she is actually interested but truly “busy”. In this case, don’t hit her up this week and see if she texts you. If she doesn’t, wait a week or two and text her to reengage.

Two, she isn’t really interested and is just making excuses. In this case, don’t hit her up this week and see if she texts (she won’t). When she doesn’t, wait a week or two and reengage.

Same action on your part in either case.

Quaternionz · 2018-11-27T15:30:09+00:00

This looks fine. As always the stands advice applies:

Ignore her, go lift.

And stop with the emoji’s.

manu_gd · 2018-11-27T15:04:51+00:00

It doesn't look suspicious to me tbh, sometimes people are actually very busy.

HurricaneHugues · 2018-11-27T17:13:32+00:00

Did you ever escalate or show real sexual intent?

UHM-7 · 2018-11-27T19:41:07+00:00

As others have said: She may genuinely be busy. What the other replies seem to have missed is that she wasn't at all decisive with her reply. This is a classic indicator of flakiness: Claiming to be busy on a proposed day but not suggesting an alternative.

If you were Chad and fucked her on the first date with your 8 inch cock in your skyscraper penthouse, do you think her reply would be "Uhh I'm super busy but maybe next week sometime...possibly?" (which it was) or would it be "I can't do that but how about next Tuesday??".

You also missed a golden opportunity: your response should have just been "Cancel on your friends". That's you implicitly reinforcing that you are the prize and that you expect to be high on her list of priorities. If she refused, you ghost her until she reaches out to you. Some would argue that this response is psycho/sociopathic but modern women are UNBELIEVABLEY flakey, they just need a better prospect.

I'm not saying its over but TBH you're in a bad spot. I would ghost her for now and wait until she reaches out to you. If you see her IRL be flirtatious and amused (DON'T be sour, DON'T try to set up a date then - she needs to prove her interest to you. This doesn't need to be specific but if she texts you out the blue "I miss you" or some shit, that's a green light to propose a date). IMO she's definitely put you on the back burner and you need to escalate heavily on your next date. If you don't end up with part of you inside her, go fishing elsewhere.

And as someone else noted, cut down on your texts. No emojis, pretend like you're a Neanderthal who just discovered a phone. "Christmas market 3pm Sat?"

Tiway22 · 2018-11-27T21:59:07+00:00

Seems fine, carry on with other girls and preferably let her see it!

Title	This chick
Author	Swish94xx
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	November 27, 2018 2:42 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/a0vfnk/this_chick/
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