I know this is random but idk how to do it. My brother looks way nicer than his girlfriend and I know that’s crazy rare but he’s in engineering and she was the only woman employee so that’s how that happened. But she dresses so so so so bad and never wears makeup or styles her hair and wears outdated glasses. It makes me wanna die. I feel like you can’t take her anywhere nice because she doesn’t know how to dress nice. Is there a way I can give her a makeover without being offensive? She’s like a Tom boy idk how to nicely tell her that if she came to family events dressed her own way it’d be humiliating. We are super high fashion so it’s weird. She’s a total bob the builder. She likes splitting the bill and never wears dresses. I don’t want to offend my brother by implying she’s ugly.... and I don’t want to offend her... but I really feel like she looks so bad and it needs to be stopped. He said he considered marrying her and she showed up to meet the family wearing printed weird leggings that looked like pajamas and a shirt that reminded me of a cowboy. She wore workout sneakers. No makeup. And her hair was naturally straight and flat. Idk..... i once showed her picture to my boyfriend at the time (my ex) and he was so shocked at how ugly she is. I felt embarrassed at how ugly she is and just said “she has a nice personality and she’s smart” and I just feel bad for my brother. I feel like he’s not into how she dresses but he’s at an age where his friends are all having weddings and I think he wants to just start his life. But his past girlfriends were beautiful so I feel like he’ll be so miserable with his current girlfriend idk what to say. Or maybe it’s not my business on how ugly she is to my brother but I feel bad for him and I think she could be pretty if she tried but she doesn’t even own mascara.