Seriously, I'm 14 and was dating an almost 18 year old. They were extremely abusive towards me and manipulated me beyond belief. They would tell my I was the issue, that everyone was my fault, that I had no right to be upset. They ruined friendships, wrecked my family life, and caused me to seek therapy. My therapist then sexually groomed me. This person went to college and I'm now a sophomore in highschool, but they are honestly pure evil. The amount of pain they caused me is something only my friend and I (they were abused by the same person) can understand. I still have nightmares about them, and it's been almost a year. They would push sex and if I tried to reciprocate, I'd be told I'm worthless. They would say that they needed to decide if they wanted me or someone else. They would cheat on me, spread rumors, and overall were extremely manipulative. I can't even go into some of the details of this, they ruined me for long time, and caused me to self harm. I'm doing better, but they will forever be a stain on my mental health. Even if they're hot and attractive, be careful, you don't know what's coming. Highschool is a dangerous place, and it's important to watch your back. Don't let people use you like they used me, you feel worthless. Worst of all you fear you'll become like them. Don't let them try to talk you into giving your virginity to them, especially when they brag about their "body count." That's all I have to say to you all, anyone who is abusive is truly mean for lack of a better word.