I've noticed this time and time again when ideas about gender and explotation come up. Women are much more easily convinced about the pay gap and Patriarchy theory in general much quicker, from a very detached, almost alien like view of men. When you try to convince a man of similar things like red pill (this is where it seems the saying dont talk about it comes from), even when they are true and they start agreeing with a few ideas, they eventually start getting squirmy and uncomfortable thinking of women in that light, while women can maintain a very detached and almost scientific and indifferent view of men whether they genuinely believe in patriarchy or not.

Why is this?