First, I understand Red Pill oneitis, hypergamy, etc. This post is not about women, whether it's possible to find "the one" or not. Something can be lost in the discovery of how women's minds work. This post is about a man's motivation.

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On your journey of self excellence - keep stoking your burning desire.

Love Motivation - when a man loves a woman, he puts her on a pedestal, imbues her with his values, and is judged by his mental image of her. Young healthy women represent our future. Love motivation gives purpose to your hard work. It soothes the pain that must be endured in the pursuit of excellence. It's a long lasting, even keel energy that will take you to the finish. It inspires long term thought.
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Recognize that the women you are with, may not be the ideal. Partly, that is because you are not the ideal man. Keep fighting to be your ideal self. Of course you must protect yourself against the stupidity of idolizing the woman you are with and signing over your assets to her.

Don't allow the world to taint this motivation. You need this fire. Keep it alive, pure, and burning hot.