Hello, trp community.

On main subreddit, I stumbled upon article named "Quality and Quantity: Why simply getting new lays stops beeing rewarding over time" and it hit me hard.

To be completely honest, I wasn't happy regarding my mates selection. Call me crazy, I had two plates (HB6) and ghosted them both. Reason? I only fucked them, because I could, but I always thought that I can succeed with womens higher up in sex market.

So I started to vent womens out. In last 3 weeks, I set dates with those that projected to me fun lifestyle with combination of good looks.

So I went on dates. Strong eye contact, slow moves, hug at the beginning, doing the kino (shoulder - arm - thigh in that order), teasing them and not taking them seriously. I lead the convo but let them speak 80% time, so basically all 3 of them said to me, "Oh sorry I'm talking all the time, tell me more about you". I act according to TRP and stay mysterious, so I flip the pressure to her.

I liked how they presented themselves to me, so I move the date to another place, usually some fast activities (I limit my first date to 2 hours, because that's the free time I have between work and box training - she knows that before we meet). That's the time I go for the kiss, it works.

Last part of my date is walking in park and making plans for next date (me inviting her to join me in some activities). They agree on plans and we kiss goodbye,  it's time for boxing.

Results? 2 of them ghosted me right away. Third one responded to message I sent here few days after, but ghosted when I told her to meet me again.

I'm struggling to see through my problems so I'm turning up to you. I'm aware of abundance mentality, but if I spent my free time for dates, I would like to succeed at them.

Basically, what should I do to seal second date with girls that are higher up in sex market? How to sell my SMV to them in a better way?

Tl dr: How to present myself in more appealing way, to seal further dates with girls that are higher up in sex market ?