Yesterday morning my LTR’s grandma passed away. It was awful. I got to meet some of the family, held them close, and let them know was there for them. Yesterday afternoon I was supposed to go to the gym but switched it immediately to that night, I had told my LTR this and she had no objection to it. I go to the gym at night, go home, go to sleep.

I wake up to call her, see how she’s holding up, and she told me she is annoyed with me. She writes up a narrative of me telling her that she looks easy and trashy in her frayed shorts she bought (not short shorts, btw, just don’t like frays). She also brings up that she’s mad I wasn’t there for her last night and this morning, and countered with letting her know that I rescheduled important time to help her in a time of need, but it wasn’t enough, and she expected me to be by her side all through the night (we don’t live together). She tells me that the gym comes first and she comes second to me, and that she was embarrassed that I was there yesterday (after she was telling me she loved me yesterday afternoon).

I’m completely lost with this girl, and my body has been reacting to it like crazy, my heart has been acting up a lot due to her stressing me out. She instigates fights every week, and tells me that we’ll break up as well if I don’t reply or if I “ignore her”. She even told me that she will break up with me because I didn’t get her a promise ring or gold chain because I told her I would (money tight due to coronavirus, while she is on unemployment making more than me).

Help a bro out, what needs to be done guys? I don’t want an easy “next” reply to this, but anything is better than nothing, thanks.